Hi Ernie,
Nice attitude. I wish I had it during my early years of training. It took me a while to develop that open-minded attitude. Before I used to be like the the frog that landed on a balance scale and got fooled by its own weight. Now I always look for an opportunity to learn from other martial artists.
/marcus
Originally posted by Ernie
[B]you know it’s funny how people see this as a trolling post by knifefighter ,
i didn’t take it that way at all , just seems to me he voiced some of the problems that happen to alot of wing chun people [ myself included ] when you step out of the chi sau bubble and get infront of some one that is skilled at some thing else and is doing there best to apply there skill .
often times you will get dropped and go back to the lab and question what you have been told would work .
now that might make you loss heart or feel like you have been lied to or whatever
just natural human response
it sucks when you get all gassed up and you put time money and emotion/ belief in something
and you can’t even deal with a jab or a thai kick
i would get ****ed to
but for me it just spring boarded an honest assesment of my skills , strengths weakness and so on
i stopped looking for this or that ‘‘way’’ or ‘’ sifu ‘’ to hold my hand
just kept going in and learning from experience , looking at myself and pin pointing what i was missing , why i couldn’t pull of the pak or whatever
then went back to the drills and dialed in that particular attribute
went back in the ring and tried again over and over and over
it just comes down to how bad you want it ,how stubborn you are , or in my case i was just to dumb to quit

everytime something doesn’t work it’s no bodies, no styles fault , or sifu’s fault but your own , it’s a wonderful oppertunity to advance [/B]