[QUOTE=CLFLPstudent;1128048]OK, just to throw a couple of pennies in here, let me play Devil’s Advocate…
Now if you are ‘training’ for ‘real life situations’ and ‘teh street’, why wouldn’t your reflexes be sharp enough to either roll with the punch/kick that broke the nose? You never know when someone is going to sucker punch you…
Even if I wasn’t “expecting” it during a light-sparring match, if a foot or a knee or an elbow fly’s towards my face I would cover up… You can’t just tell an attacker on the street that there are no head shots…
Also, why in the world is someone who has had multiple MAJOR BRAIN HEMORRHAGES be sparring in any form whatsoever? If he needs to learn self defense, then learn to shoot. Who cleared him to spar? Who’s school is about to be sued beyond existence?
-David[/QUOTE]
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O.K, fair enough. That’s what I get for airing dirty laundry on the net. So I should clarify a few things:
2 hemorrhaghes, so I suppose you could say multiple. Approx 6 years ago. He’s an adult who makes his own decisions, of course supported by medical advice. Also, due to his previous injury - he wears headgear at all times (apart from open hand contact) and light contact to the head by trusted and controlled partners. I do not allow him to compete as a result and will not until, and if, he is ever given the all clear by his doctor (and of course the governing body), which is unlikely. He is family and I will not put his life at risk, hence my constant and close monitoring from the sidelines. as far as ‘self defence’, he can already look after himself quite well in that respect.
My school has no chance of being sued beyond existence for a couple of reasons. One, I don’t operate as a commercial venture and all of my students are either family or close friends. I don’t teach publicly and in the rare few instances of accepting members of the public over the past 13 years I have been extremely careful in how I introduce sparring. Obviously I’m not an idiot so I’m also covered for indemnity. Beyond that, the gym in which we train has it’s own stringent agreements in place with each individual which I won’t go into here. Cheers for the concern though.
As far as whether my or their reflexes are sharp enough to roll with the punches to avoid breaks etc, the answer is no. I don’t know about you but I can tell you that in pretty much every street fight I have been (apart from when I have k.o’d my opponent at the outset), I have busted knuckles, dislocated fingers/thumbs, busted my nose (or at least a decent amount of blood), received a significant cut, if not a concussion, cracked a tooth or been scratched or bitten (including teeth cutting my knuckles) plus burn marks around the throat and armpits from clothes being torn etc (not to mention gravel rash and glass fragments). As far as in sparring, I think we must be doing it wrong because it seems to me that the more you spar, the more you get injured. Obviously I have a lot of work to do to get up to your level.
Thanks for the feedback.
BT
(Thanks for starting this thread Bawang you *******)