First, I can say that the men AND women that I know who compete in MMA are the most grounded, level-headed and modest martial artists that I know. They are that way because they deal in reality daily. They win, they lose and they immediately know why. The reason I love them is that they tend to train hard.
Sure, a lot of them have tattoos or crazy hair. I have a gold nose ring like a bull. This is just because we tend to be younger men, me being an oldie at 34. And of course, it attracts all types. Some deal with the fear of fighting by being loud and talking smack, other are quiet. But these men and women are very dedicated, focused and drenched with the best qualities martial arts can offer.
My view of TMA is not positive. Any combative claiming to be “traditional” is already out of the loop, finished. You can’t show up to a modern fight with yesterday’s technique. Not only have we all seen it, we know the counter to finish you when you employ such a relic. In the world of competitive BJJ, it’s not the finishing technique, it’s the set up… for the same reason. Everyone is progressing and hip to it. You have to be cutting edge.
Also, TMA schools promote themselves for the dedication, discipline and integrity they teach… My God, they’re like TD Barnum ringing the register off the suckers they lure in. Discipline? Integrity? Little Johnny gets to stand in front of the class with his black belt or sash, the big shot, without every producing or receiving a bloody nose.
And I know that isn’t the point of TMA. And there’s more to if than fighting. And no one needs to fight because they have ball crushing and eye popping technique. Yea, everybody has an excuse to avoid putting up.