[QUOTE=MightyB;1159037]One of my biggest problems and always has been is finding sparring partners (even in Judo). That’s the one thing I do like about BJJ - no shortage there. That’s where I go when I’m getting ready for competition.[/QUOTE]
In striking arts, it’s even more difficult to find good partners.
Can’t tell you how many sparring sessions have devolved into this.
Been yelled at for even stalking like Floyd Sr in that clip.
In Baltimore, I don’t think I realized how good I had it - used to complain because there weren’t many guys my own size to work with.
But, for larger guys, that’s probably always going to be the case, and the guys I did get to work with at Baltimore Sanshou were really great - so I’ve learned to be more appreciative.
I don’t have the option like you do to go to a mma gym for good partners - because most mma gyms have cr@p for striking and locally, they all spar like meatheads (see the vid above).
Boxing gyms can be cool if you take it slow and get to know the trainers for a while (weeks) before ever asking to spar. Still gotta watch out for the occasional nutbag who starts dropping elbows when he can’t hit you with his punches.
I like my muay thai gym, but at the moment there’s nobody I really enjoy sparring with. Even the one guy that’s good near my weight class still takes things really personally, has a worse temper than I do, hits like a mac truck, and spars with 6 year old cheap everlast gloves with no paint on the knuckles and probably even less padding.
Maybe I’m in the wrong sport; but if I’m going to put my body through an actual fight, I at least want to get some credit for it (either an amateur record or money).
I’m always on the lookout for good training partners. I’m trying to kick off some of those relationships by offering to hold pads for anybody that comes along - either help the nice guys get to a decent level, or help the decent guys to look at it as a team instead of in-gym competition.
Taking my ego out of it, volunteering to “lose” the sparring session, and being quick to be verbal about slowing it down if it gets a little intense has helped me out so far.