It’s true, you do have to shovel a lot of snow to get to the cabin.
There is a preponderance of schools out there that offer a variety of Martial Arts to train in or to learn as a hobby. Many of these are of the hobby variety and yes, many are just baby sitting places with parents that hope learning in a disciplined atmosphere will help their child become a better person.
In and of itself I do not think this is a bad reason to send a child for lessons. THe environment of serious training hall will definitely have an affect on the childs behaviour. This behaviour can be reinforced further with a parent taking an active role in the childs learning.
Many serious Kung Fu schools will not start a student on the more demanding aspects of the style until they are of an age of understading fully and taking responsibility. THis is dependent on the maturaty and character of the child.
There are also other types of schools that do not offer the type of training you can find in a traditional no BS Kung Fu school. Frankly, I don’t think that 90% of the people can handle or understand what is required to achieve Kung Fu in anything. Society is rife with lazy folks stuffing cheetos and cokes down their gullets trying to get home in time to watch Jerry and the hillbilly love trysts.
Such is the Human condition. Laziness and apathy rule the day. Only the individual can change the individual. This is lost on many. People seemto think that if they attend and listen they will somehow magically absorb skill merely by being in the presence of it. Kinda like a churchified view of things.
In the school I attended, for every one student who stayed longer than 5 years, 250 students would leave in the first year. This is the reality that smacks people in the face when they want to learn how to move like Jet Li, Bruce Lee, Jackie Chan or some other figure they aspire to mimic.
So, in the end, be happy that you are training and that you like training. It really makes no difference what everybody else is doing. THey aren’t you, you aren’t them, just continue. If you want to stop, then stop. But keep in mind that with training, every day lost is another day of non achievement and in fact the more you miss out on your training cycle, the worse you will become until you must start again at the beginning.
peace