Not every situation is a Lifetime movie.
Yeah, but not every situation is a joke either. The mental health and well being of at least two people is at stake here, but you don’t seem to give a rat’s ass.
Is she Dangerous? Or just annoying?
hey thanks to those ppl who gave me constructive posts.
the really bad thing was i’ve known her for 4 whole days lol when she came out with this like me stuff and calling me 15 times aday. its all been a bit too quick.
anyway i agree with KC elbows god the girl is from another country she misses her family etc feels lonely here sometimes. i dont think its appropriate to use her or really any woman. i guess if to some of u that makes me a weak sensitive new age guy/puss well then f@&* you. 
(thats really directed at MB)
anyway i answered one of her calls today she was still waiting there for me and i basically told her she was freaking me out, we only knew each other four days, i’m not going to meet her and if she keeps pestering me its only going to get worse. she has stopped calling the rest of today. i’m hoping this will die down tops in a wk.
btw MB u actually read the letter forum in Penthouse? and i guess u only buy the magazine for the articles…
Good - sounds like maybe she had a few really bad days and is beginning to get over it.
(crosses fingers for both of you)
Originally posted by Chang Style Novice
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Yeah, but not every situation is a joke either. The mental health and well being of at least two people is at stake here, but you don’t seem to give a rat’s ass. [/B]
You are correct. I usually assume people are not totally socially inept. Maybe I need to start making the assumption that the peeps on KFO are social morons?
Originally posted by Water Dragon
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You are correct. I usually assume people are not totally socially inept. Maybe I need to start making the assumption that the peeps on KFO are social morons? [/B]
What would make that an assumption? And am I the only one here wearing aquaman underroos? I mean, it is underwear that’s fun to wear, after all.
And am I the only one here wearing aquaman underroos? I mean, it is underwear that’s fun to wear, after all.
When I was a kid, I wanted new underoos everytime I saw them in the store. The odd thing is that I never wore them. I just really liked the package they came in.
Yeah? Well you should see the package in my Underoos!
Originally posted by Water Dragon
Yeah? Well you should see the package in my Underoos!
Is that a vienna sausage?
Yeah? Well you should see the package in my Underoos!
Still lookin…
I think it’s some sort of hive.
CSN - “You guys making jokes about this sicken me.”
Do I need to put a link in here to that thread you started making fun of the guy in the wheel chair? 
Friday - There are only two things you need to do. First tell someone about this situation. If your young tell a parent or teacher. If your older and on your own, tell a freind, then ignore her. If she persists let her know you have told a few people what is going on and you will have to call the police if she keeps bothering you and again, ignore her. Talking to her, no matter how many times she calls or knocks or finds you in public, will only cause problems. At all costs just stay away from her.
i am really disappointed in you friday. this poor girl is from another country, probably has no friends, and no family to confide in. she’s even attractive (you said so yourself), but still cant even get a guy to return her phone calls. i’m sure there are some guys out there who would Kill to have a cute 18 yr old girl chasing after them.
how can you be so selfish and self centered. why is everything about you? what about the girl? maybe she’s so lonely that she’s almost on the brink of suicide, because you cant take a couple hours out of your BUSY SCHEDULE to hang out with her and maybe give her a little sexual gratification (although she’s not even asking for that… she just wants to see you). if the girl does anything harmful to herself you can hold yourself personally responsible because you have no consideration for other peoples’ feelings. is that what has to happen for you to be satisfied? you’re a sick man
Again, it is fairly obvious who on here has actually dealt with stalkers before, and who is dealing in hypotheticals.
For the record, the consensus is:
break off all contact.
obviously, kc elbows, you’re just SO attractive that women stalk you all the time. if only we were all so blessed
I had a similar situation about 2yrs ago. This girl would NOT leave me alone. I was in a band and we played all kinds of shows (locally) and she came to each show and was always trying to talk to me, to hang on me. I had just married at the time and was 2mo into my marriage. My wife (who hates my music “Death Metal”) was threatend by her many times to stay away from me. We did have to change our number, and I had to break my lease to move, and also other contracts to make changes to our lives. She eventually found us and started it all up again. Finally I just quit the band, got a job and made all my police reports w/ all evidence I had to offer. This girl was 17 and I was 21…
Women stalkers are scary as all hell… Worse is they can make up all kinds of stories and Auth will believe them before they bvelieve you!!!
Suff0beastly
Well said, suff0beast.
Just try your best to avoid her, and not to provoke her. You know the old saying about a woman scorned. It doesn’t sound like she’s doing anything crazy yet. If she sets your car on fire or kills your cat, just move to Texas and casually leave your new address where she can find it. 
Originally posted by morbicid
obviously, kc elbows, you’re just SO attractive that women stalk you all the time. if only we were all so blessed
Being stalked has NOTHING to do with your attractiveness. My wife was stalked, and I was by proxy(so that the stalker would know my schedule). I’ve dealt with stalking, and since then, everyone else who has successfully done so has the same advice I was given: break off all contact.
No kidding. I’m ugly as can be, and was stalked twice, although not to a dangerous level.
This thread is pitiful. In all seriousness, it sounds like there’s a situation where this young girl is lonely and probably going through culture shock. So she’s reaching out in the only way she knows how. She probably doesn’t even want a boyfriend. She most likely just wants a friend.
But everyone here HAS to have the drama and make this a stalking issue, LOL.
Friday. Take the poor girl out to a party or something where there will be a lot of people. Introduce her, help her meet some people, and dip out after she has found some friends. It may not be the KFO thing to do, but it is the decent thing to do.