gotta say it

guys and gals on this forum.

lately i have been noticing many threads ridiculing other arts.
This has to be considered.

For the cma-ist this is a reflection of poor wu de/mo duk.
In turn, when you take action to proclaim yourself as a policeman of martial arts and how they presented and disseminated to the world then you must take responsibility for these statements.

Did any of you have teachers who publicly or privately ridicule other practices? If so, then this is not the mark of a true martial artist, is is the mark of fear, jealousy and general weakness.

All martial arts, of high level and depth to simple and not so deep offer any study an inroad into understanding and defining themselves in this world. In reality and in perception.

To challenge and meet that challenge is one thing and in martial circles is quite acceptable. To just throw out smack talk for the sake of it merely makes the one doing it and his/her own martial art seem petty.

To take this action often times removes any legitimacy from your own art and paints the complainer as nothing more than petty and back biting.

Think about this before the next time you seek to defame another regardless of your own emotions. It’s nobodies “job” here to expose frauds. Frauds will expose themselves in due time merely from lack of measurable skill.

In other words, it is usually best to speak for yourself and to speak from true knowledge and understanding, not from heresay and from a 2 minute scan of someones website.

food for thought.

peace

A true practioner of the arts will observe the tenents,courtesy,intergrity,perseverance,self control and an indominatable spirit.therefore,if one is in harmony with the body,mind,and spirit, they will realize there is more to the art than just punches blocks and kicks.

What you put into the Martial arts, is what you get out of Martial Arts.

There are some arts I don’t care for and I don’t think they are effective.

I respect the individual and there dedication to there art.

I see nothing wrong with honest evaluation and comparison. However, I have to agree with you that most of what goes on is bashing. Comparison leaves room for the other guys opinion, and considers what others may want out of the martial arts as being valid. Bashing, on the other hand, is closed minded and mean spirited. Who would want to post an honest alternative view if they are just going to be ganged up on and cyber thumped? Not very conducive to the open exchange of information and views.

We’ve all probably engaged in a little superiority trip now and again. But this post is a good reminder of what the martial arts and these forums both are about- and that we might want to look at ourselves before bashing another style.

Good point.

wudan is fu cking stupid and ineffective. i think you are all stupid for telling me im stupid for stating the obvious fact that the wudan arts are fu cking stupid.

kung lek

You suck!:smiley:

(heh heh J/K)

                                         MRTWS

Does that mean I have to stop picking on TKD?:confused:

Re: gotta say it

Originally posted by Kung Lek

For the cma-ist this is a reflection of poor wu de/mo duk.

Not a lot on this board is really “wu de” anymore. It hasn’t been for a while. A lot of posters are leaving KFO more and more because most of the postings are just turning into “bikini karate gals” and “jet li kicks butt” threads.

Heck, I’m even bored and I used to really enjoy this place. Still do occasionally. :slight_smile:

This forum might be fine for the people here, and that’s fine and good. :slight_smile: But “wu de” it is not :smiley:

Ryu

how wude

hahaha :eek:

I feel my feet fly out from under me when I try to answer this. I think that you, Kung Lek, are an idealist, and I think you mean well. I don’t like art bashing either, but see it as symptomatic of other issues which aren’t likely to go away any time soon.

Imo, a true martial artist is a Fighter. From the vantage point we are selecting here, he/she is a fighter within a specific training system(s). The person may or may not spar, or compete, but the presence of a fighting spirit and a practical degree of training is there, and able and willing to be used. no further value judgments at this point.

Other expressed qualities might be genuine, or used as a screen for appearances. You mean there’s no backbiting among high level martial artists? I’ve heard it myself. You expect the students to behave better than that? Some do, to be sure. Yet, the template remains and it has its purposes, somewhat akin to stirring the stuff at sea’s bottom to provide a feeding (fighting) fest. a miniature gladiatorial contest, if you will. You are making the assumption that the true martial artist is an evolved human being. I’m saying that is not necessarily the case (even though I would wish it to be, to the point that the person would be capable of determining his own behavior in a responsible fashion, beyond the customary). Even in instances where that might be so, I wouldn’t trust it particularly – not anymore. Too much power. In my view, the Emperor is generally not wearing as much as he would have us believe, and he knows it, sometimes. Fear, weakness, jealousy can thrive within a genuine martial artist. We can only hope that some negatives are eradicated, and others are not so strong. Everyone, not just ma’s is responsible for deed, thought and heart to the degree that there is awareness and beyond that. I think I am more of an individualist who values teamwork.
I understand your point of view, and I respect it, but I don’t share it entirely.

The competition between arts is there, and I’ve seen it encouraged by professional martial artist/teachers. This is okay when presented objectively. But comparative instruction can also begin with what I feel is simple deception. For example: We have this move, but the other(s) don’t have Anything like it; or, Others can’t block… . Take your pick. It’s not only what is said, it can be the manner too. The example of the other art might be shown improperly. Who’s to know, unless you go out and look? The foundation for such bashing can begin and end in bull****. subtle as well. Ignorance and misunderstanding of what they are capable of in the eyes of others inflates some teachers who might encourage students to feel likewise, by reason of association. You wrap all of this together, and you have a bunch of cats fighing in a bag when they should be co-existing and freeing the world of fur balls.

Sometimes it comes down to a matter of presentation, very well illustrated by GunnedDownAtrocity. He feels something is worthless. Why should he voice respect for something he has no respect for. Ah, but what he is Also doing is showing that there is no division made between the art and the people studying it. Hence, simple statements become personal insults, answers to insults, and so on. He has a visceral way of expressing himself, but it is to the point. It’s not my way, but it is his. I’m sure he could sit down and absolutely floor you with the most polite way of saying the same thing, or saying it without saying it (but that might need a face-to-face to have its full effect). I feel that he has that in him. Would that be better? I would wish that no one be made to feel stupid. I would also like to hear reasons given, if they can be, for strong opinions. I am not necessarily agreeing with the example here, but I can see how it comes about, and is expressed.
My feeling is that if it is possible at the time, some sort of distancing of self from what is being discussed might be a good idea. Then, it is not just a matter of manners. I don’t know that I spoke on this all that well, but I think it is important.

On a tangent, I think that the line between defense and Domination is very thin, as is that between self-defense and Vengeance. Without these capitalized aspects of human nature, much strife and argument would decline from lack of motivation to pursue. and fewer toes down the line would be stepped on, insulted. In my view, the problem commences at the top layers.

Cody

P.S. GDA, how are you doing?

ha … i agree with you cody, but i actually study wudan and was just being a smartass. your right though … i would have expressed myself the same exact way if that’s how i truly felt so i can see how the sacrasim was easily missed.

im not doing great, but ill be better very soon. ill be poisoned for the last time on january 31st and then i can begin putting myself back togeather.

GDA,

I’m tickled. It was your post that prompted me to reply in more detail. It was concise, and the sarcasm served the purpose perfectly. 'cept I didn’t realize it was sarcasm, lol.

Springtime is going to be special for you this year. Cause you’re going to come back, better than ever! in tune with the budding and flourishing of leaves and flowers.
best wishes for your return to good health,
Cody

I have to say I can’t stand the idea that we should all be super nice to each other. Anger and arguments have their place. If you deny people those things, you are doing them a disservice.

I mean, I tutor physics and I’m very, very good at it. When I explain something, I never ask, “Do you understand?” I ask, “Do you agree?” I get them to argue with me. I want them to say, “No, you are wrong because there’s no way you can know that…” That way they can really wrap their brains around these ideas.

And, if somebody p!sses me off, I call them out. If I don’t, I’ll just eat my heart out and be kind of catty and petty with them over a long period of time. That’s not fair to either one of us.

Now, if you are enlightened and understand everything and never get angry, that’s great. I’m happy for you. But some people are still trying to understand kung fu, what makes a school good or bad. Some people are still trying to understand life. We’re grappling with ideas. We’re working through some stuff.

Let us do it. It’ll be okay. I promise. If people can’t express their thoughts, those thoughts will never be challenged and those ideas will never change.

If you want to grow and mature and gain wisdom, you have to be willing to be wrong and act like an @ss sometimes. You’re going to want to slap me for this but everything is as it should be IMHO.

i want to slap you.

but i just got a thing for beating women.

“Springtime is going to be special for you this year. Cause you’re going to come back, better than ever! in tune with the budding and flourishing of leaves and flowers.”

you have no idea how much im looking forward to it. a couple months ago i was worried that i would get so used to sitting on my ass playing video games that i would have little motivation to return to training. it has become apparant as all this draws to an end that i have never been more wrong in my life.

GDA

Yeah, I remember that post. You sound different now. I think you’re stronger than you thought you were, and more motivated too.

And now to go out for some coffee and a good read. It’s a nice day!

best,
Cody

Originally posted by GunnedDownAtrocity
[B]i want to slap you.

but i just got a thing for beating women. [/B]

We were just talking about that sort of thing in the got qi? thread.

neat … i want to read about slapping women … where do i go?

i didnt see a thread titled got qi in any of the main forums.

eulerfan,

I like your approach of asking if the person agrees, rather than if they understand. I think it is a creative approach to teaching, and gives the student an opportunity to think in a more active way.

I agree, feelings need to be honored and expressed. I don’t believe in covering things. This holds especially if the standards for being proper are stratified such that those below generally have to crawl under a rug or be thought disrespectful.

Indeed, everyone should have the opportunity to act like an ass. It’s a learning experience, and it sure beats twisting up inside. I might take that opportunity soon myself because when nothing is “proper,” just be yourself and let the chips fall as they may.

Expression with vigor and “calling it” are healthy and natural. And, things can get unpleasant because a change needs to be made. To prevent the unpleasantness might hold the status quo incorrectly. I make an exception: threats of harm, and actual abuse, to be carried over into 3D. I think that goes beyond the necessary freedom we require to grow and to live. When, in the course of these Internet disputes, there are issued clear threats or veiled threats to safety/life of another person, then a line is crossed. I don’t think that inhibition of this behavior compromises the honoring of feelings.

Cody

Gee, Lek

do we really have to practice Wu De when it comes to known scams like Shaolin-Do and Temple Kung Fu?

I personally don’t mind a little trash talking between Shaolin/Taoist schools and Sifus (heck, a few of y’all even dissed Sifu Totten, despite his 40 years of kung fu), but let us be able to, forgive the pun, call a spade a spade.

If the founders of such systems as noted above didn’t set themselves up as deities, demigods, demigoges, gurus, supreme grandmaster 11th Dan, etc, pehaps the rest of us would have some respect. But some of these schools are so McDojo-y, they ought to offer Happy Meals and a toy with each lesson.

My 2 cents. Please give them back when finished. :wink:

Originally posted by GunnedDownAtrocity
[B]neat … i want to read about slapping women … where do i go?

i didnt see a thread titled got qi in any of the main forums. [/B]

There’s a bit about slapping men, first. Then it moves on to the women.

http://forum.kungfumagazine.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16442&perpage=15&pagenumber=64