Originally posted by yuanfen
This business of touching hands is somewhat humorous.
It takes knowledge to understand what you have touched
and what the tiucher intended to convey to the touchee, if anything.
Even in his prime Ali had soft hands- but there be thunder there..
Read, listen, talk, visit- then make up your own mind.I have nothing but respect for Kenneth C and most of his students.
And, if someone has made snide remarks about Wu- shame on their ignorance.
Agreed, Joy. As for the value of touching someone’s hands. Somewhere along the way I realized that pretty much everyone could beat me up, so that wasn’t good enough criteria for evaluating one approach over another, LOL. My lot seemed to improve substantially when I refocused my examinations on whether or not I could realistically expect to develop the kinds of skills they were trying to impart (even if not to same degree … but who knows
).
Odie-wan, I too don’t know the particulars of how Buddy teaches, and agree with the suggestions thus far to assess and compare for yourself. FWIW, an old friend and former training partner hooked up with Buddy Wu some time back. Haven’t heard from him in quite awhile now, but last reports were that he was very happy with in Buddy’s school and with his training there.
While I’ve never participated in Carl’s regular classes, I do know something of his overall approach, as we learn from the same teacher, and I’ve met many of his students. I believe that his emphasis on strong foundation and skill building is sound and a service to those who choose to learn from him. Carl is also able to effectively demonstrate why we practice as we do, and I’m sure he would do his best to satisfy your interest in that regard along with an overview of the “basics.” A number of Carl’s students engage in frequent sparring, perhaps even earlier relative to others in our lineage; so you might inquire about that too if it happens to interest to you. Of course there are lots of other avenues to explore with both Carl and Buddy, depending on your interests, goals, and concerns.
I have not yet seen any single technical approach, teacher, school or “culture” that seems to suit everyone’s values and predilections. Sadly, not even ours. Much as I love and value what and how we are taught and practice, I believe it is most important for each and every one to feel they’ve made the best choice for themselves.
So … best wishes in your search. 
Regards,