HC - My apologies for assuming you were a guy. :o
BTW, if it helps any I told him exactly why I was leaving and he completely ignored it.
Just go and don’t look back.
Humanchild,
You do not need to offer an excuse to quietly leave. JUST DO IT!! Hanging on unnecessarily is an injustice to yourself. You have committed no wrong. You simply woke up after swallowing that Matrix pill of knowledge.
Get outta there Neo.
mickey
HAHAHA!!! Mickey, that is the best analogy I have heard. Was it the blue or the red pill?
Hi Din Gao,
Humanchild swallowed the red pill and she got the truth, nothing more.
mickey
I agree about the just leave advice. When left a school similar to what’s being described at Bow Law’s school, I just stopped going. I ended up having a much easier time than people that tried to stick around and explain why they’re leaving and all that. A sudden, clean, seperation is usually best, imo.
You can check out those schools ,if you still don’t see anything you like ,you’re welcome to try the two styles i train in.
I train in Sil Lum Hak Fu Muhn (Shaolin Black Tiger) and Sil Lum Hung Faat Pai (Buddha Palm). My Black Tiger sifu travels regulary to the NYC area and my Hung Fut teachers are here in NYC.
If interested pm me here ,i’m looking for someone serious to train with.
jeff:)
P.S. The Hak Fu Muhn i train in “IS NOT” Fu Jow Pai or the Black Tiger that Koh used to claim.
There are too many good martial artists in New York, and many of them have schools. It can take a long time to find a school to settle down in.
Find a place that appreciates you and gives you peace more than aggravation.
Trust yourself.
Thank you for all the good info. Wish me luck!
You don’t need luck when you have wisdom. Give us an update when you can.
Take care, you will be alright.
mickey
You always need luck.