[QUOTE=chusauli;1004041]Sounds like someone who is fantasizing themselves as a “fighter”, lacks emotional maturity, and doesn’t realize the consequences of their actions… and a poor speller. Perhaps too many blows to the head in “realistic training”. 
I’m not saying there is no time to fight, or that if you do it you shouldn’t win or that one should train unrealistically.
Many of Yip Man’s early students who did fight, fought against other martial arts enthusiasts or gangsters. But many of the real fights could have been avoided…had HK in the 1950’s been tougher on the youth, there would have been greater consequences.
Gang rape in prisons happen. So as much bravado as you got, even tigers have to sleep.[/QUOTE]
Wow. I think the insecurity may just be a character trait you suffer from, not benny.
Sweat at training to avoid bleeding on the streets. YOu have a very twisted view of the world if you believe that taking necessary steps to defend yourself, your family or the citizen who cannot defend themselves without grabbing a gun or a blade is an aggravated assault.
Fighting is not always assault, nor is the person who fights always a juvenile delinquent or a criminal. Benny is right in his assessment that your justification of not testing the effectiveness of your training in REAL combat sounds more like someone trying to justify their lack of willingness to fight, or their utter cowardice.
Unless you have pressure tested the gross motor skills, and the application of them how on earth can you ever be confidant that they will work in a life or death situation??
You draw a long bow to link a fight to a potential gang rape in prison. I’m not saying they don’t happen, but it seems as though you have been watching far too many episodes of OZ, and have been convinced that it is a true reflection of what goes on in prison. If you end up in prison, you can always choose solitary confinement.
There was a scroll on the wall of our school which said, (i paraphrase, the exact wording escapes me) “Unless you are prepared not only to fight, but to fight and win you can never truly defend yourself.”
It’s not about wanting to fight. It’s about the realisation that in order to make the tools work for you when you need them, you need to know the intricacies of their application.