[QUOTE=lunghushan;704312]Seriously, I’ve never known ANYBODY killed in a fistfight.
Bottom line is martial arts are really not very important to anybody except cops who need to restrain people.[/QUOTE]
I’ve known loads of people who got a trip to the ER, courtesy of anonymous street trash #3421577a, AFTER getting their wallet (or anything else nice-looking) knicked. Note: they were going to get beat down -anyway-, so why go down without a fight. You -might- be able to break contact and clear the area.
OTOH, I’ve been a CCW carrier forever, and go nowhere without a weapon, if I can help it. There are however, areas and where I cannot Carry, and my Karate skill comes in handy then.
Also, I’m a Soldier. On at least 4 occasions (2 of them in Iraq), Karate and Judo have saved my life. Between ROEs and surprise, employing crew-served or personal weapons is not always possible, but you must still control the situation (i.e. folks get all kinds of crazy when you cut their doors open with a buzzsaw at 0200 to look for mortar rounds under little Suraya’s bed..). 2 of the occasions involved emotionally-disturbed or intoxicated personnel, and simply shooting them was not appropriate, so I beat the **** out of them and called the MPs.
Above all that, the practice of Martial Arts has made me a more capable person. Management and leadership are so much easier when you are not intimidated by many people.
I spend my lunch hour practicing the long form of Tai Chi in the parking lot where I work (and it takes time). I work overnight so when I take lunch there is not much people around, but still if I see a car passing by or someone walking by I kinda stop and keep my stance with a natural look waiting for them to go away.
Why?..let’s say I am shy :))))))
I don’t practice in public, but that’s probably because I’ve got the luxury of a big back yard and a garage to train in.
Sometimes I stop in a park on the way between my house and my Sifu’s place and work out a form or two at. But it’s usually at around 5am. It’s not that I don’t wanna practice around people, I just tend to feel more comfortable and more concentrated if I’m alone. Plus, I’ll admit it feels hella cool to “own” the park for a little while. I’ve never been stopped by the cops, but they’ve flashed their lights through the park to see what I was doing once or twice.
I work in the ER, so I’ve seen numerous people killed in fistfights or with handheld weapons.
There is a difference between demonstrating and teaching, and it is tempting and easy to go from one to the other without really realising what you’re doing, which was the point that person was making.
I remember once training with my Sidai on a playing field, and this group of 10-14 year olds came up about 15 metres away and started following us through a fairly demanding crane form. They were surprisingly good :eek:
Ben, it’s probably cause they weren’t carrying the baggage of being students and were just trying it without thinking about what it was. I’ve seen this before.
as soon as someone starts adjusting teh minutia and doing this or that or stopping and starting you in a form insteqad of just letting you find teh shape, then refining, it will invariably set up a mental block in your mind and impede your performance because you’ll be all focused on teh minutia.
the unimpeded mind just imitates the shape as is and will pick it up fast.
they won’t know how to put the force in for the most part, Ive found that too.
Willow sword - you practice in darkened rooms in the gym…? No wonder nobody has ever come up to you - they probably think you’re crazy!
LOL it wouldnt be the first time poeple have though that about me;) . No but seriously the reason why i practice in the aerobics studio in the dark is because i really dont want some yahoo coming up to me disturbing me with alot of pointless questions. I go to the gym to train NOT to socialize. of course i am not rude to people if they do show up and ask questions, but the darkened room cuts way down on the “HEY IS THAT KROTTY???” line.
When I had a gym membership I used to train in the aerobics room but the windows were mirrored so the girls wouldn’t feel uncomfortable having a bunch of guys staring at them.
Still a person or 2 would pop their head in to see what the weird guy was doing. The hard core lifters stayed away because it was too far out of their comfort zone.
I am training solo right now, so any open space I can find I try and practice there, but in the most part I usually go to the gym to practice my forms. I don’t have the luxury to go into a classroom setting and train. I do get a few curious bystanders and ask me about my martial arts. I’ll show a little bit of my forms if they ask and once their curiousity is satisfied, they go on their merry way.
I was practising forms/knife defence outdoors earlier today. I think we bored a couple of people who were watching!
I often find I make even more of an effort if people are watching. Oddly, when mountain biking I perform much better on rocky climbs/downhills when I have an audience! I even got a round of applause once! (And managed to fall off while stopped by getting my feet stuck on my spds right next to a car full of people who find it highly amusing!):o :o
[QUOTE=MARTIALSTUDANT;704243]My question is concerning some of my other post about not having space. I have joined a gym were I could use one of the studio rooms to do forms. I would have plenty of room to open up and go full throttle but I would feel kind of weird asking a new sifu if its ok. so what I’m asking you kind men/women if its usually frowned on in Chinese martial arts or not. I don’t want to ask sifu and I don’t want to be disrespectful.[/QUOTE]
Sorry but you’ve have asked a lot of fairly weird questions on this board. I was just wondering what’s going on at your school. Are you afraid of your teacher or is he/she just unapproachable? The reason I ask is that most of the questions you have asked here could be answered by your teacher or even other students.
Respect is one thing however I go to the school to learn the art. I also pay to go to the school. Therefore if I have a question I am going to ask.