Originally Posted by Ultimatewingchun
“IMO, one should strive to learn both approaches, because mma events aside, you don’t really want to go to the ground in a real street confrontation if you can avoid it, because too many things can go wrong.”
Followed by Knifefighter with this:
“Tell that to all the police officers who have been taking suspects to the ground to control them for years.”
***Forget the police, I’ll tell you about two near incidents that happened to me within one hour of each other exactly two weeks ago, today…on Friday, November 21ft.
Walking from one appointment to another on my job, and now going through the Fulton Street mall area here in Brooklyn…decide to duck into a very narrow store to get a coffee to go…the coffee-to-go counter is in the back..and I must have brushed some guy as I passed him by (he was standing near the front)…
And I start to hear some real loud talking: “Hey buddy, you just brushed me, what’s up with that? You got some sort of a problem”…by a guy who’s now standing right in front of me and in my face. (He followed me to the back).
He’s standing really close to me - and in a very narrow and crowded store.
I’m angry at this point that he’s playing this intimidation game, but also being on alert, and so I say this: “I’m sorry, I didn’t realize I brushed you” - but with a very intense look in my eyes - while clearly staring him down at that moment. (His face and mine couldn’t have been more than 12 inches apart). My words said one thing - but the body language was basically telling him “_uck you”.
But while I was facing him I was also trying to size up his posture, his legs, where his arms were, which vital targets were exposed, (ie.- a knee to the balls, straight blast punches or palm strikes directly to his nose and mouth area), etc.
In other words, sizing him up for striking, if need be. And for taking his space away with forward pressure. And for controlling his balance.
Because the last thing I’d want to do in a place like this is go to the ground with this guy if he decided to press the issue into a confrontation. That would be nuts on my part if I could avoid it. If this was going to be a fight I wanted it to be a very quick standing fight and and then a very quick exit.
What happened was that he turned his face away in disgust, and I left the place immediately. The coffee idea was history.
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About 40 minute later, I’m now in the Starbucks on Court Street, (just the other side of the Fulton mall area) - and I decide to go to the bathroom. There are a whole bunch of boxes stacked high in two piles leading to the bathroom. So the passage between them is very narrow - only wide enough for one person at a time to pass through.
I’m on the bowl doing my business about 4-5 minutes later when I hear this:
“Hey you, get out of the bathroom right now”…while whoever he is is pounding on the door and screaming these words at the top of his lungs. (This guy sounded like a friggin’ lunatic!)
He continues, again at the top of his lungs, while banging the door again: “Get out now or I’m getting the key!”
Now I’m really p i s s e d off, and I say, loudly: “Hey buddy, I’m on the bowl, and I’m not coming out until I’m ready to come out!”
So about a minute or so later I’m ready to come out, not knowing what to expect when I open the door, other than the fact that this clearly could turn into a fight. This guy sounds like he’s crazy, and I’m in no mood for any more of this garbage.
He’s standing right between the boxes as I come out, and blocking the way. (The two piles of stacked boxes were about six feet away from the door to the bathroom - so by the time that I got to where he was standing I not only got a good look at him - but I saw that he had a friend with him…behind him about another five feet from where he was, and leaning on some of the other boxes at that area, although not paying much attention to me.
But Mr. lunatic was. So I walked up to where he was standing - and he didn’t budge; he’s now purposely blocking my way, and we’re pretty much nose-to-nose (nothing’s being said as of yet).
I start to back away slowly, and he starts to walk through the two piles - when I decided to stop. And I’m just staring him down now, silently.
And now he says very softly and meekly, “Excuse me.”
I say, “Sure, no problem” with the same intense “_uck you” stare as I back up real slow and turn to let him pass…and we always stay basically nose-to-nose with each other and facing each other head on. He then says, referring to me, “Tough guy”. (But again, very quietly and with no real aggression).
He goes into the bathroom and I pass his friend and leave the Starbucks.
Again, it would have been insanity to go to the ground (if it came to a fight with this guy) if I could avoid it.
Is it always possible to avoid a clinch or takedown to a groundfight? Of course not. But there’s lots of wing chun moves that can be used (as well as other types of striking)…to try and keep a fight standing - until the other guy drops.