Originally posted by scotty1
[B]“Just don’t kill or cripple him unless you won’t get caught.”
Quality advice.
:rolleyes: [/B]
He he, oh-yeah!
I don’t like it when guys treat a girl like this. Especially when it is a truly nice girl. The dirty b@stard. When it comes to my family, friends and myself then I become very aggressive. Of course I don’t know who is involved but I can relate.
In all seriousness though be careful of the legal and vengeful ramification.
sharky
This is a hard problem and ive been though something VERY similar myself. You can help but as you say your not superman and your proberly yet to properly gauge all the facts.
First step find out EVERYTHING from everyones perspective, you may yet not have all the facts especialy when a lot of emotion is involved.
You want to reasure your friend that there is no such thing as being ‘easy’ when your not in full control of your sences. There is only taken advantage of.
She is a victim not a fool make sure she realises this…
Also make sure she realises this wont make her sudenly seem less attractive or anything else. Tell her how well she is handling it, things like that. Keep her confidence high and her support network around her. Dont consistantly talk of revenge this will only upset and remind her.
Chances are this guy is actualy just ****ed that she doesnt want to be with him. Might sound rediculous… but i know a few females i REALLY dont like… I wouldnt sleep with any of them, not even to try and hurt them.
It sounds like he is hurt about her not wanting him and is lashing out by trying to act as though he never meant it either. I would bet its nothing more than idol threats, if not i would honestly seek the police’s help it IS deformation if he casts any aspersions on her charactor and she can sue him… It may at least convice him to shut the hell up. Threating her is very serious and can be punishable by imprisonment if i were you i would be telling the police that STRAIT away.
Dont beat anyone up unless they try to hit you first… If there is violence in a situation with this much emotion chances are it will go to court. Think how it will look if you as a martial artist are seen to travel for miles to help beat up someone. You will not come out well in that court i gaurantee it.
If it breaks out when your there… turn him inside out.
Sharky
You seem like a pretty tough nut, so I’m not going to tell you what I think you should do. If someone did that to a friend of mine, I’d be after him - no questions asked. If you’re going to straighten it out, make sure you go in with a crew you can count on. Get tooled up - but only use 'em if they do. Jail time is bad time.
Good hunting, and best of luck. Also, I hope your friend is OK.