This girl i know, i guess you could call her somewhat of a freind. She ALWAYS hits me for no ****in reason. They aren’t light hits either, but not hard enough that they hurt me. I just get ****ed off when she hits me, and i wanna smash her face. I have tried and tried to tell her it ****es me off when she hits me, but she won’t leave me alone.
What can i do? I’ve never hit a girl but this b.i.t.c.h is pushing it Should i drill her in the ribs really really hard or something? cause that’s the only solution i can think of.
Help me out. I like this girl and all, but if she keeps hittin me i’m just gonna snap.
My only advice is to sit her down and make it very clear to her how you feel about her hitting you.
If she doesn’t stop after this, then you have a choice - if you still want to see her, then you either have to deal with the hitting or hit her back. Otherwise stop seeing her. Maybe if you stop seeing her she will figure out why.
Being a girl does not give her the right to hit you.
DUDE, everything can be related to a Seinfeld episode but which one was this? maybe i could use the solution on the show:D
Yeah, i don’t get it man, she thinks she’s all tough and ****, but she’s really fragile, and a wuss, and if i hit her i’d hurt her pretty bad. That would be no good, even though i’d like to
I don’t think there was a seinfeld episode on this subject, but there was a friend’s episode. Joey was going out with this girl who kept playfully hitting him, and it hurt! His friend rachel showed up in the coffee house while they were there once, and joey’s girlfriend hit rachel, then rachel hit her back, they went back and forth until rachel took it a step up and kicked the girl in the shin. She told joey to stick up for her and say something to rachel, but he wouldn’t so she left. Do something like that, and you’ll have your problem solved
Yeah man, just say “Stop hitting me for ****'s sake!!”
And grab her arm as she hits you. Hold on to it, tell from her readction whther she wants you or not, and go from there.
Is thats what you want, otherwise grab her hand and poke her in the eyes.
Although she may deserve it, DO NOT HIT HER. Mainly because it is not considered socially acceptable by the majority.
First, politely inform her that nobody likes to be hit, even you.
Second, if you know she’s going to hit you just block it. Unless she is conditioning her arms the block will hurt her and you will only be defending yourself.
Lastly, she probably does have a thing for you. Address that issue and she will probably stop hitting you.
I agree with most of the posts here.
She almost certainly has some attraction to you, hence her desire for physical contact.
However as said before don’t allow the hitting to continue, tell her straight that it ****es you off, even to the point of saying if she does it again you will cease contact with her.
If she likes/respects you at all then surely she will stop, and perhaps then your relationship can develop further.
And if that don’t work, then in the words of GDA “slap her about abit, and do her like a dog!”
what I get is an image of a girl who is hitting for attention, someone who can’t defend herself and thinks that she can get away with this crap. There might be quirky sexuality as well (foreplay), or just plain frustration. If it’s the latter, she doesn’t handle frustration well. She’s hitting hard enough to hurt a bit, frequently. She’s out of line. If you’re not getting anything out of it, that takes care of the first concern as well.
Some of this has to do with you. You are feeling aggressive. Is this how you want to feel towards a woman? It doesn’t seem to be. Is it a turn on for you? You don’t have to answer. I’m just throwing this stuff out cause the decision process has to do with how you relate to, or want to relate to women. If you are not happy with it and the spot in your heart she activates is more cold than warm, tell her you’re not interested in her hitting, or in her. I don’t think hitting her back is necessary, or good for you cause you really don’t feel comfortable with this. Let someone else in the future, who doesn’t care one way or the other, take care of it. Block her and walk away.
The problem of women (not in MA) who like to hit gets complex. I had dealings with one who turned out to be abusive to her family, to me. it was a control issue, on many levels.
This sort of pattern can also extend to getting the partner/spouse into fights which she instigates.
So, if the pretty little thing with sweet voice and smile hits as you have described (or is emotionally abusive), and if this isn’t what you want, I would part company and avoid involvement. If the relationship was deeper, I would suggest another path. As it is, cut bait and find someone who doesn’t cause you pain.
but which one was this? maybe i could use the solution on the show:D