and what are you recidivism rates?
In some situations, zero relapse. For instance, I had a temp job once installing awning, drapes and mini-blinds. There were rotating teams for the company and one day, I was working with this one guy who was militant when it came to his health, but he had taken it to the extreme in a subconscious desire to get praise and recognition from his father, who was also one of the 2 owners of the company. His father was also a very disciplined guy, so the son took it to the extreme to get his praise, but it wasn’t doing anything to get the praise he wanted. However, one day, I gave him energy to help him out during one particularly hot day, but the energy had the secondary effect of letting him release some of the emotional energy he had pent up inside him. I wasn’t around when he blew up, but I heard second hand that his yelling was intense and several of us, including the father of the guy who released his pent up emotions, the other owner and the supervisor of the team I was on at the time, were privately discussing what should be done to help him. And we all came to an agreement that he had personal life issues, that his ultra-regimented lifestyle was unhealthy. I had spoken with the supervisor of the team I was on privately and I poked around for more information, trying to get a quick psychological assessment of the family/work situation both the father and the son had and everything kept leading back to the father-son relationship, which the supervisor agreed probably was the reason. He had known the 2 of them for about 20 years, but he hadn’t thought of the cause being the father-son relationship. The supervisor thought it might have been related to the son’s relationships with girls, but when I suggested the father-son link and listed reason after reason why I thought that was why, he started seeing how the experiences the son was having with dating were really a symptom of his problems he was having with seeking his father’s approval.
Now, the temp assignment was only for about 4 weeks and pretty much everything I learned about his personal life, outside of a few small details, I heard in that one afternoon. I haven’t kept in touch with them, but the last I heard was that the son was feeling better after blowing up that one day and releasing many pent up feelings and he hasn’t gone back to the same degree of militant disciplin he had before. The guy before he met me was a robot with over 95% of his life. He’d even beat himself up over not keeping his schedule from getting messed up.
There have even been times when someone online has specifically said that they were feeling better, having read a post I had made in regards to a TV show. They felt healthier, they said they were sitting up straighter and I hadn’t even intended that they get better. They hadn’t entered the conversation at that point. Now, that being said, I am not responsible for anyone I have treated, intentionally or not, if they choose to return to habits that have caused them to regain something they have gotten rid of. If one were to heal the liver of a lifetime drunk, even removing the desire/addiction to drink and they choose to start drinking again like they did before, the healer is not responsible for them getting a screwed up liver again.
But, to cut the details down to small bits, there is always progress or none at all. The time any one has ever ‘relapsed’ after being treated by me is because they have chosen to go back to the way they were. It hasn’t been the fault of the healing itself.
also, what are your criteria for even taking someone on?
Most of the time, it is because I got this sudden urge to help. I haven’t set up a healing shop and hung up my shingle. When it wasn’t a spur of the moment thing, it’s been with those I’m close to and only them.
don’t think you don’t subjectively screen out people you don’t think you can help
I’ve never come across a time when I thought ‘this is too much for my abilities’. You can’t go into any situation thinking that.
(never mind that a large percentage of the population self-screens themselves out by not even seeking out what you do)
Are you talking consciously or subconsciously? Because that bloke online that said he was sitting up straighter is actually an atheist, I believe. What I do know of him, he doesn’t believe in energy healing, I don’t think.
which automatically improves your track record; in other words, the vast majority, if not all, the people who end up coming to you are predisposed towards “fringe” treatments, and being thusly invested at the outset are predisposed towards a positive outcome, because they have decided beforehand that your thing is what’s going to fix 'em;
That is what’s best. Being open to the energy coming into your body and healing you of what’s wrong. There’s nothing wrong with that. However, there have been lots of people that don’t come to me specifically for that and I find out there’s something wrong in passing. I don’t go around broadcasting that I can heal with energy. In fact, when people ask me about metaphysical things in real life, I proclaim being an atheist, that I don’t believe in psychic powers or magick or an afterlife or anything else related to that stuff. For a time, I had considered trying to get a job at a energy healing place, since I have the master level attunement for reiki, but I chose to not do that.
and as for not exacerbating symptoms: if you want to make an omlette you gotta be willing to break a few eggs - input / output - if what you are doing is such that intrinsically it “can’t” exacerbate something, then it’s not what’s really “healing” the people you are “treating” - there is no free lunch…
And this is more evidence that I could help you better understand energy healing and how responsive energy is with the mind.
are you kidding?!? when you are fighting, it’s inherently adversarial! you are actively trying to take someone’s choices away! the whole point of combat is to be unethical - that’s why it’s fighting!
So, that whole bit about Marx and Queensburries rules or whatever was unethical?
when you are healing, it’s the exact opposite: you are trying to give someone more choices, to increase their freedom
Exactly, you are supplying the body with an additional source(s) of energy to be utilized by the body. That’s part of it.
- doing something to them without their knowledge is sickiningly paternalistic, and even the most out-there energy healer types I know wouldn’t go for it[quote]
So, the people that spread energy in the form of love and peace and hope and good tidings and feelings to help increase peace and harmony amongst large segments of people are sickeningly paternalistic?
[quote]as for pain meds, you call it interfering (some might call it intervening, or even alleviating), which belies your own strong personal bias, sorry to say, and is an extremely judgemental way of characterizing something that, for many people, enables them to be functional in their lives when they other wise couldn’t be
I’m not calling it interferring. That is the inference you are making when taking what you’ve said to its ultimate expression of reality. The same would apply to an EMT or an ER doc that is assisting someone that’s been in a bad car accident and all the time they are being worked on, they are unconscious. Their conscious mind is not aware of what’s going on. Is it unethical to treat someone without their conscious consent? If someone is knocked unconscious and dumped into a river to drown and someone jumps in to get them out, was what they did unethical when they rescued the one bonked on the head, even if they didn’t have the legal right to aid in someone’s health, like an EMT or an ER doc would?
don’t get me wrong, BTW - I am no cheerleader for pain meds, and in many cases i thik that they become more of a problem than the original injury, but you need to evaluate each person individually rather than making sweeping generalized comments about what pain meds are or do…
I’m not making generalizations. All pain meds inhibit the transmission of information from the pain nerves to the brain. Sometimes, they just lower the intensity of the level of pain the brain gets. But, that is what is happening. You are altering their mental and emotional states, regardless of which way they are being manipulated.