Greetings..
TCMA, more-so than most, was a life-style.. self-defense being a large portion of that style, but not the only focus.. Temples were not exclusively dedicated to producing fighters, they also produced superior people.. I use the term superior not as a distinction separating TCMA from others, but as homage to those that dedicated their lives to the cultivation of an ideal.. Hardcore dedication to developing a singularly devastating fighting method without the balance of a well-rounded lifestyle leads to an imbalance in one’s existence.. I am all too familiar with the mind-set of those that train to the exclusion of all else, I did at one time.. sparring and controlled competitions just didn’t do it for us, we need validation in a real environment.. we took jobs as bouncers, door-men, etc.. basically, we exported violence, we sought it.. and, my spirit suffered, my life suffered.. in my mid-thirties I began a family and everything changed, I knew I didn’t want my kids to be raised by someone that held violence to such a high standard.. oh, and my wife was a bit of an influence, too.. although she tolerated my previous training and my inclinations to test my skills, she was adamant about the responsibility for a new life to have a balanced upbringing.. and I agreed. My kids have trained in martial arts, my son is a world-class fighter, but.. he is a deeply honorable and spiritual being, unwilling to harm without just cause.. his training is as intense as any I have seen, but for him it is a competition with himself, always trying to be better than the person he was the day before..
So, after deciding to review a life spent seeking the next opportunity to “play the game”, I discovered TCMA… it was there that I began to see the value of Wude and transformation of hard fighting skills into a well-rounded art form.. it was there that I connected with Taoist philosophies.. it wasn’t that I didn’t have certain spiritual inclinations previously.. I had just not seen it so well interwoven into fighting arts, resulting in a life-style that feels “right”.. true, it may be more of a maturity thing, but.. being a superior fighter is empty without an ideal worth fighting for.. This world is full of macho-types willing to engage anyone that doesn’t yield to their ego.. hence the current state of world affairs.. and, to be sure, there are “ideals” that themselves are violent and promote instability.. but, in TCMA I found a certain honor and integrity that added value to an otherwise pointless education in the skills of destroying other beings.. self-defense alone is a reasonable goal .. but, contesting who is the best “fighter” has little value except for the ego.. surely, striving for excellence is a valuable goal and a good tool for developing better skills, but.. at some point competition becomes a simple venue for violence.. hence, the value of TCMA, controlled violence with a conscience.. Contests that seek to determine who is the best fighter will continue to deepen and expand violence at levels that become socially counter-productive..
If one’s only goal is to finely hone the skills of fighting, TCMA might not suit them.. if one finds no value in spirituality, it is likely they will find little value in TCMA.. Many proponents of extreme fighting assert the value of being able to handle superior fighters.. but, how often do we encounter highly trained fighters in street situations? Self-defense is more than pure fighting.. it is also strategies that avoid such situations.. it is not show-casing your abilities, but surprising the unsuspecting adversary..
Now, I do agree that TCMA has some issues that need attention.. fraud being one major issue.. and, its willingness to test skills being another.. but, the testing of skills need not be pure violence, we need to focus on the “art” of martial arts as well.. I think society is ready for a culture of Martial Artists that offer role-models rather than brutish “bad-boys”.. with extreme fighting as a role-model, imagine the potential for escalating street violence.. TCMA is an alternative to raw fighting arts, there will always be a venue for the absurdly violent, it is an element of our nature.. but, I find TCMA to be a path around and beyond that mentality, an evolution of the Art.. TCMA preserves a rich tradition while encouraging evolution.. I find great satisfaction in letting TCMA values guide the uses of the other arts I have trained in.. in finding a spiritual connection to a martial journey..
At the end of the day, it is the student’s nature that chooses the path.. Martial skills with a spiritual balance.. or simply a venue for expressing an inherently violent nature..
Be well..
PS: I know this is kind of “sappy”, but in my old-age TCMA has real value.. TCMA is what we make it, and we have a great opportunity ahead of us.. Maybe it should be referred to AFA (American Fighting Arts) with a Chinese Tradition..