If you are a kung fu instructor, what title do you go by: sifu, coach, master, grandmaster, Mr./Ms.? Why have you chosen this particular title?
Shifu means Teacher Father.
Why would you call yourself anything other than teacher.
People that call themselves masters or grandmastes are deluded. It is a title that other use for you, not yourself. Deluded twats.
practice more and stop calling yourself by false names.
My Sihing and I always just went by our first names.
In recent years, we picked up more students that are native Chinese speakers. They just naturally call us Sifu, so we just go with that now since we’re all Chinese anyway.
You don’t get to choose your title. Your social role, the situation, and the people around you determine that.
I’ve been called “coach” here in the USA, but I prefer people use my first name. I prefer peer-to-peer over teacher-student, as usually most people I’ve “coached” usually have a skill that I want to learn as well. The benefit to this is that everybody learns, and nobody expects payment.
Way too many as shat here in the USA who are calling themselves things that would NEVER be said.
You want to call yourself a master, be prepared to be called to the mat and showcase all that you have mastered. Most of these fools could not find their behinds with a flashlight and a map.
Lame and sad.
too many people want to be a martial arts master without mastering the martials arts.
“boss” with a western drawl Cantonese accent.
I tend to feel that if my actions do not inspire others to say my name with respect, then no title will solve that problem.
I understand the use of sifu, just not big on being called it.
I’m good with Dave.
David is also good.
I do have certificates that say I’m an instructor though!! 
lol. They’re buried in a closet somewhere upstairs…
I originally started this thread because this past weekend one of my Chinese instructors referred to me as a “master” when speaking to another individual. I felt honored that he would compliment me in such a way, but I don’t use those types of terms when referring to myself.
Most of my adult students address me as “Richard”. One always addresses me as “sifu” because of his past training in another guan.
I expect my teenage students to refer to me as “Mr. Tolson”. Since, even at 56 years of age I still address my seniors as “mister” or “ms”.
I hate the term “coach”. Maybe if I taught volleyball or boxing, but not for TCMA.
After 46 years of training, I do feel that I have mastered a few skills. Yet, referring to myself as a “master” seems arrogant. Though other trades, art-forms and at least one sport refers to highly accomplished individuals as “masters”. So, I don’t think that using the term is necessarily wrong.
BTW, I refer to my instructors by the terms “sifu” or “master” depending on those overhearing the conversation in public and by their first name in private.
Thank you for the feedback!
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A teacher, instructor or coach all appropriate.
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if you teach for a long time or for more advanced classes
senior instructor is also appropriate.
[QUOTE=mooyingmantis;1270214]I originally started this thread because this past weekend one of my Chinese instructors referred to me as a “master” when speaking to another individual. I felt honored that he would compliment me in such a way, but I don’t use those types of terms when referring to myself.
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Well, if you’re introducing or referencing yourself, you just go by name. You don’t introduce by any title that students might call you.
[QUOTE=mooyingmantis;1270214]BTW, I refer to my instructors by the terms “sifu” or “master” depending on those overhearing the conversation in public and by their first name in private.[/QUOTE]
Traditionally, the student always uses the term Sifu, whether in public or private.
Culturally, I would never be able to call my teacher by his first name.
No different than how people expect youngsters to say Mr. or Ms.
[QUOTE=Dale Dugas;1270031]People that call themselves masters or grandmastes are deluded. [/QUOTE]
I was in a Catholic church English class when I was young, during the introduction, I said, “I’m Mr. …”. Everybody was laughing.
[QUOTE=YouKnowWho;1270224]When I was in a Catholic church English class when I was young, during the introduction, I said, “I’m Mr. …”. Everybody was laughing.[/QUOTE]
One of my Japanese friends told me she was embarrassed that a karate instructor introduced himself with, “I’m Sensei …”
Learning Japanese in undergraduate school was fun and man oh man did I open mouth and insert my size 13s numerous times.
I like my slaves to call me ‘master’
I’ve been at odds with the term ‘sifu’ for years. A lot of people call me that, given my position here. At the Tai Chi Gala, they give me that title because I’m a presenter. The same happens with most formal events. I’m okay with it now. Even though I don’t really feel that I’m at a level to warrant being called ‘sifu’, especially given some of the inspirational sifu that I’ve had the honor of meeting, I keep in mind that the term can be used informally for any position of authority in Mandarin, for a taxi cab driver or the manager of a restaurant.
What amuses me more is this trend of people using the title ‘sigong’ or ‘sihing’. I supposed they think that ‘sigong’ is a higher ranking title than ‘sifu’ and that ‘sihing’ is more modest, but to use either as a title is out of context. Those are terms that are used within a family, so they don’t really work as a formal title to people outside their lineage.
As for my slaves who call me ‘master’, my boots need cleaning again.
Hahahaha.
Nice one, brother.
All the titles mentioned here are alright to me. But I like the title, instructor, the best. Because some of the other titles have been misused quit a bit.
Regards,
KC
Hong Kong
it is not the title thats the issue, its people calling THEMSELVES Master, Grandmaster, Sigung, Sijo. Others call you those titles if deserved and warranted.
Too many people are more worried about titles than making sure they can actually use the material they teach.