Taoist Meditations

Hi Scott R. Brown,

Thank you for your kind advise regarding my attitude.

I also take no pleasure in the current state of this exchange, if you can even call it that but I will remain on this thread for a while longer, like it or not.

I can only speak for myself, but I do certainly not call myself a daoist simply as an excuse to behave anyway I see fit, although I can understand why that might be a convinient explanation for you.

Of course, disagreements are to be expected among all people. Your opinion of yourself comes across as being very clear and it is reflected in your view of what being a daoist is and is not. I do not agree with your stated opinion regarding daoist values but I can respect your beliefs and position in this matter. I also acknowledge the fact that I do not know you and that my view of who you are is based on a very limited interaction and that hence I could be wrong.

As for name calling, I agree it is inpolite and pointless but in calling someone else childish, do you not feel that you are doing the same but in different words?

Your post on conventions is good but it relates to human interaction regardless of faith. To me this looks like you are actually saying that FT (my Sifu as you probably know already) and myself are badly behaved human beings, and not just “bad” daoists, if there is such a thing?

To me being immature means alot of things, not just breaking or trancending convention at the improper moment and the same can be said for it’s opposite.

And being mature includes many things unfortunately not always found in the conventions of society, such as not judging a book by it’s cover and not passing judgement on an insufficient basis. We all value things differently, but I feel that doing the above is far worse than name calling in the heat of the moment because it reveals a persons true values and beliefs.

HG

We, the members of The Grand Ultimate Supreme Tao High Court, hereby declare practically every human being past and present, Guilty As Charged for acts unbecoming of a true Taoist sage. For these heinous acts, every living female virgin must bare a child born white-haired old and wise ready to die on The Grand Ultimate Supreme Tao High Court 8 Directional Cross.

Right? You know, seeing as how the True Sage manages his daily life without doing anything, and also conveys his ideas without the use of speech. Gosh Darnit, even Lao Tzu talked. Let me guess, now do we not take the Tao Te Ching literally or??? Is there like a book of revelations in the Tao Te Ching? That would be cool. BEHOLD, The Grand Ultimate Pure Invincible Dragon of The Ocean With White Eyebrows. His rider was Lao…and Tao followed he.

Hi HupGerk,

Thank you for your latest post. It was very informative and I appreciate the tone with which it was intended. I intend to respond to the questions of your previous posts, but before I do let me say that I feel you have misinterpreted my intentions. It was my original intention to provide a bit of guidance to FT. He insists that others are intentionally offending him and uses this to justify his inappropriate behavior. He has repeatedly mischaracterized what I have written and some others as well. One may fairly ask what gives me the right to insinuate my idea of guidance onto another. Well, if I am walking along and I see a blind man nearly walking off a cliff I feel it is my duty to intervene. He may not understand my intentions and be offended at the manner in which I treat him, but the intent of my actions are as a benefit and not to do harm. If the man insists on walking in the same direction then it is irresponsible of me to just let him go. He is not aware of his impending doom. You may feel I have been unduly harsh. That is a fair comment and as you might imagine I disagree and believe you have not read ALL my posts carefully enough. Having said all this it must be remembered that even good intentions may, at times go, awry.

In response to your previously posted questions:

For someone who claims to be true daoist, you are sure quick to claim your view as superior. A more civilized language doesn’t change that fact.

I have not stated this and I have not implied it either. If you drew this conclusion it was because you assumed it. I am always happy to reply to questions so to be fair I would rather you had asked me if I consider myself a Taoist and what principles I adhere too. You have sort of done so in a rather indirect manner and that is why I am responding. The answer would be no! I consider myself a student of Tao, but NOT a Taoist. There is a difference and I am not merely mincing words. But that is a topic or another post.

Ok Scott R. Brown, so please explain the proper conduct of a daoist, from your own point of view?

If Dao exists then we are all part of it, like it or not.

If Dao exists then rape, murder, war, death, cancer, AIDS, bad cooking and TV-commericals are also part of it, like it or not.

And swearing too.

To repeat I was never critical of FT’s anger or his swearing, I even validated his right to his own feelings. I only criticized his name calling.

In your own words, based on your own understanding or as passed on to you from your teachers (since I assume that you are in some lineage with daoist roots), what is the proper conduct of a daoist? If you can claim that some of us aren’t living up to the standard, then what is the standard against which you are judging us?

I did not say anyone was not living up to the proper conduct of a Taoist. I said FT’s behavior is not following the principles of Tao. He claimed to “be” the Tao. I did not. To be fair you should be asking him the same questions you are asking me. I feel it is fair to assume that is someone claims to be the Tao they should have a reasonable idea of what that means and appropriate conduct. He has not demonstrated this so I called him on it, that is all.

In general terms here is my view:

Many students of Tao approach questions of right and wrong from the common relativistic view. It is not unusual to find this view in novice students of Tao. There is no basis for it found in the principles Tao. It is the foundation of secular humanism however, and it is from this source that relativism has wormed its way into modern thinking. Relativism’s basic premise is the principle is that “all Truth is relative”. This premise is then used to justify all sorts of inappropriate behavior as you and FT seem to be doing. This premise is very easy to disprove and I will disprove it three ways.

The first is the easiest. If we make the statement that, “right and wrong are relative therefore no absolutes exist” we are making an absolute statement. Since this is an absolute statement, then absolutes actually do exist. Therefore, right and wrong are “not” always relative. We can then say that at least sometimes right and wrong are absolutes.

The second argument against relativism is based upon a “correct” understanding of Lao Tzu and the Tao Te Ching. One of the most common statements in support of relativism amongst students of Tao is that the statement in the Tao Te Ching that “The Tao that can be named is not the eternal Tao.” This implies to some that, since Tao cannot be identified (named) it cannot be said what it is or isn’t. If we can’t say what it is who is to judge what is “correct” Taoist behavior? Well the problem here is the statement is misunderstood. If the Tao cannot be named than why would Lao Tzu write an entire treatise on something that cannot be explained or identified. If Tao cannot be identified then Lao Tzu is violating his first principle by writing the Tao Te Ching. Lao Tzu as well as Chuang Tzu write extensively then about something that cannot be written about and therefore we have no cause to read anything written by them as they are writing about what they cannot know about. Since they do write about Tao we may presume Tao is knowable and understandable.

The correct interpretation is: It isn’t that Tao cannot be known, it is that it cannot be comprehensively communicated to another. Therefore, it is indicate by pointing to it and using negative statements such as “no that is not it”! It is a false presumption that Tao cannot be known. When Lao Tzu says, “He who says he knows, knows not; he who says he knows not, knows”, he means that there is no plumbing the depths of Tao. Tao cannot be “completely” known, but if it were unknowable we couldn’t even discuss it in the least bit.

Further the Tao Te Ching is filled with statements defining proper conduct. If there were no such thing as proper conduct within the principles of Tao, then Lao Tzu could not fairly state any proper conduct. Since he does, there are parameters of proper conduct found within the principles of Tao.

The third argument against relativism is the Yin-Yang argument. All things occur in contrast to something else. If we presume relativism to exist, then absolutism must also exist. If absolutism did not exist then we could not have relativism. They are mutually arising contrasting principles just as Yin exists in concert with Yang.

Ok so now we have seen three examples that demonstrate absolutes exist and thereby definite principles of conduct that may be attributed to a mature student of Tao. What this means is we may fairly identify “some” things as being always right and some things as always wrong. However, it isn’t as simple as just arbitrarily choosing one thing over another. First we must have some way to identify what is right and what is wrong.

All things occur within a context. Put another way, all things occur relative to other things. It is the context that determines when something is appropriate or not. When actions are measured within a context it demonstrates them to be “relative” to the context. However, we may say that within THAT context the actions are “absolutely right or wrong”. Determining the proper context for our actions then is what we must accomplish.

Actions are performed for reasons and all actions have consequences. It is the reason behind an action that will determine its appropriateness. It is an actions appropriateness or perceived appropriateness that will determine the consequences.

If I am walking along and accidentally step on a person’s foot. I apologize for the action and I am forgiven. It is generally recognized by others that these things occur at times. If a two year old child wanders into me and steps on my foot no apology is necessary because the child is not expected to understand their actions or have full control of their body. If I walk up to someone and intentionally stomp on their foot to put out a fire on their shoe, my intention is meant as a benefit and no apology is considered necessary. If I intentionally stomp on the other person’s foot with the intention to do harm, this action is wrong. My motivation was to hurt the person. There is no motivation that may be used to justify intentionally hurting another person who does not agree to the action. As in, “lets play stomp on each others foot to see who says OUCH first”. In this circumstance the action is agree upon by both parties, so no offense is considered. However, in behaviors such as these, eventually someone goes too far and one of the participants is likely to get upset. In this case it must be communicated to the other person that this is no fun any longer and the action must then be ceased or it becomes wrong! In each of these circumstances the action of stepping on another’s foot occurs with a specific context and this determines the rightness or wrongness of the action. But the context is not determined by the action. The action or “stepping on a foot” is exactly the same in each circumstance. It is determined by the intent. It is the intent then that determines the rightness or wrongness of an action. If intentional unjustified harm is intended then the action is inappropriate.

So in FT’s case the question has arisen, what gives me the right to identify his incessant name calling as inappropriate and immature? It is inappropriate and immature because his intent is to harm another person. It is meaningless whether the other person’s feelings were actually harmed or not. Attempted injury is not as bad as actual injury, but it is still an immature and inappropriate behavior. He is motivated by a perceived injury (insult) to his style of MA and by extension himself. His actions are immature and do not reflect the principles of Tao because they seek to return injury for a perceived injury received. Under this circumstance it reflects his insecurity.

Insecurity = immaturity! Insecurity is based upon an attachment to an ego-identity. It is this ego-identity that has been injured and feels the need to be defended. He feels the proper defense is to hurt those he perceives hurt him. His insecurity is so deep that he cannot even read the words of other poster’s in the spirit in which they are intended. He continually redefines the comments as insults even though it is repeatedly explained that they are not intended as such, so he lashes out by name calling. He has not asked anyone to explain their meaning with the intent to correctly understand. His insistence on redefining and mischaracterizing the actions of others is meant to defer his own responsibility for his hurt feelings. He has even accused me of causing his behavior by how I have treated him. These are not the attitudes and actions of a person in accord with Tao! He is responsible for his own feelings and no one can resolve them for him. The attempt to hurt another in return for a hurt received does not resolve the real issue. It creates greater conflict and hostility that in turn reinforces the foundation of the problem. This causes greater problems in the long run and resolves not a thing. I have not returned any of his hostility with insults or name calling. My identifying his behavior as immature is merely describing a characteristic. It is not different that saying his eyes are blue. If his eyes are blue, then the statement is statement of fact. It is fair to ask me how I arrived at the determination his actions are immature, and now I have done so.

FT is expressing himself truthfully, stating what is on his mind at the moment, this is being natural and living in the moment. Like it or not, but to me, he expresses a better understanding of the Dao than anyone else on this thread becaues he lives it for real, both the good and the bad…or the yin and the yang if that is how you prefer to express yourself.

The rationalization that FT is merely expressing his inner most feelings with unrestrained passion according to the principles of Tao is simply not true. Maturity guides a person to restrain their baser impulses to do intentional unjustified harm to another. Pretending it is a spontaneous natural expression of Tao is a flawed rationalization used to justify inappropriate behavior. A person with maturity would express his frustrations is a more productive, less offensive, and less damaging manner. The base intention to do unjustified harm to another is centered within the primitive centers of the brain, specifically the limbic system. This is commonly referred to as the reptilian brain as it is the source of all the basic primitive behaviors of man. That is food, sex and fight or flight instinct. In the case of FT we are considering the fight portion of the fight or flight instinct. All animals from reptiles up possess this primitive instinct. However, humans possess the cerebral cortex. This is the source of all our higher brain functions. This is where maturity and impulse control is located.

If we allow the fight center of our brain to control our behavior it will get us into dangerous and harmful situations. Now in the case of FT, I am willing to bet he does not walk into a biker bar and call the biggest meanest man there a D!CKEHAD even if he did hurt his feelings! He does not do this because his reasoning center informs him he will be soon leaving in an ambulance or body bag. The reason he feels free to behave with such inappropriate behavior on a BB is because he may do so with reasonable anonymity. This gives him the opportunity to behave in ways that are socially inappropriate in relative safety. He has no real fear of retaliation. He may therefore engage in behaviors he wouldn’t dare perform in public. It also is a very telling indication of his maturity level. It is how we behave when we cannot be identified and suffer negative consequences that clearly reflects the quality of our character.

Greetings…

Are we STILL talking about TAOISM.. if it can be spoken, it is not what it is..

It might be a good time to bury this equine carcass..

Be well..

Well Bob,

That last post is the best **** thing you have said in the whole thread…CONGRATZ!!!

Scott,

You simpley are a confused person regarding Daoism and you should not live by Lao Tzu’s words. Also did you look up that book i said cause you asked find me a BOOK where a Daoist carries on with such language and blah blah! Remember you said that?? :slight_smile:

Taoist Master Chuang, read it and see that the Taoist Master was not a balanced human as you are not even if you think you are by coming on here and trying to throw your beliefs and good people skills around. Sometimes a person of Tao in your case not a Taoist but a person of Tao lol shouldnt intervien as this can keep the conflict going, sometimes its better to keep quiet as a person of the Tao then medel in the arguements of others?! So why have you done this? Interviening if a person is going to jump off a cliff cause he is blind or maybe he has problems he is better off dead?

Taoist Master Chuang is the Book!!! Read it Master Lao Tzu, please!!!

Bob,

I will come to visit you, do you spar?

Scott,

I dont hang out i Bikers Bars, but i have worked in alot of Bars and on Doors and ive handled my own with talking and fist. If you guys was sitting down with me having a beer in a bar i would tell you both you are still d!ckheads what would you do? Sit there and try and say hey you shouldlnt swear that is childish, unfortunatley children dont swear thats how i was brought up, adults are allowed to swear so its ok with me that i can swear. Kids if they come on this forum should ask there parent because this is a open forum and not a under 18’s kids forum. So there will be tempers and swearing, sexual context give, explicit meanings. Welcome to the TAO!!!

We cant stop it it goes against it, medeling can cause more flare ups then trying to help, try working on a door or in a bar you will see that in full effect.

I will try and tone down my swearing as i type as i think i dont type as a different person, what comes out is me. But dont tell me to stop my swearing you can ask that can you tone it down please and that is exceptable for me, but you have an attitude hidden behind those post cause i can feel it?

You keep posting you are adding to my fire! I think you and bob might have some good info to share regarding your taiji training but when you bring in Tao and other stuff that has nothing towards martial arts and say im not living a Taoist way because YOU think you are RIGHT then you are not speaking as u are of the Tao yourself. Bob is right, and you simple cant understand what he wrote on his last post…you must learn from bob become his student and live a happier life?

PEACE AND HARMONY IN THE TAO

FT

hahahhahahaha,
so now it is us verse them.

this pretty much explains that we are all the dao… yin verses yang and us verses them.

man, the first thing any of you did was put crap on FT and the system. now all you say is “oh we are only commenting on the behaviour”. look at yours first, then coment on us.

Let me say, that we are a very close group.
Next are any of you daoist??

None of you want to listen to anything but your own egos and prove that you seem to know the dao.

Ok here is a question. you talk about the dao as if you all know it, you study internal, so where is the natural method in your form or meditation?

Soy Kuil,

LOL They keep changing from telling i am not a Taoist or follow the Tao to giving me guidence cause i shouldnt swear, then my system is made up!? HAHAHAH I didnt stand a chance they now me too well i shouldnt have posted if i knew what i did and who i am and what i think?

Anyway this thread is gone to sh!t, thanks to Lao Tzu…lol its all his fault to have followers from his Dao Te Ching stirring up trouble here calling me a child and trying to force me to be like them…shame on them!! :slight_smile:

lol
FT

Guys,

I think that basically no one will give in to each other, constant dishormony of yin and yang. I dont believe in yin yang, only the worldly people do though,…

I am the Tao!

FT:p

Scott,

Did you read my last post? If so, I hope you understood it. If you changed the word Tao to Christian, or some such, you would make much more sense here. If I was the dean of a seminary, I would definetely give you a legit certificate to preach. Other than that, all you are talking is drug store psychology.

Taoists who judge and preach…that is, uh, overwhelmingly amusing. You know what Lao Tzu would say to all of this if he floated up on his invincible dragon about right now? Assuming that he could understand what all of us are saying, follows the Tao Te Ching, and knew a proper English response, he would glance all of us over, reply “blah, blah, blah,” spur his dragon and float away… and THEN he would be angry with himself for speaking, be sad with himself for being angry with himself for speaking, be sad because he spurred his horse, and then be angry with himself for being sad because he spurred his horse, and then…

It’s like this. The perfect explanation, for all of this is the following phrase: “No. No! You are not doing what I thought I said I want you to do. You are doing what you thought I said I want you to do.”

Sacoche,

Welcome back. Answer my question please.

AMEN!!

Lao Tzu wouldnt bother, actually im wrong he would say #&$#%@^%$ hahahah like a true backward donkey riding man!

FT

Hi FT,

I am sorry you still miss the point. It isnt about swearing. You repeatedly redefine the issue no matter how often i try to explain it.

I will look up your reference when i have time. Thank you for providing it, but it did not answer the real issue. It is your intent that matters not your actions.

Hi Tao Yin,

Yes I did read your previous post. Did you wish me to comment on it?

Do you consider yourself a Taoist? If so, it is interesting that you question whether a Taoist should judge, but then do it your self. You may fairly disagree with my view, but your view is hypocritical, mine is not! Following the relativistic view, my view is just as valid as yours, so if you really believe in the relativistic view you are being hypocritical to judge mine. Aren’t you??? You may have been dean of a seminary in the past, but it does not seem to have worked to your advantage. I am happy to discuss any topic with you, but please try to avoid hypocrisy!

To be very CLEAR I am judging the “intent” behind actions, NOT the person! What has occurred here amongst some is name calling of others has been argued to be appropriate behavior, while my view is that it is childish, inappropriate, unproductive, etc. I gave a reasoned explanation on why I believe this. NO ONE else has given a reasoned explanation of why name calling is justified. My view is founded on reason and may therefore be demonstrated; so far everyone else’s is merely founded upon un-based opinion.

I am criticized for ASSUMING what Lao Tzu would do or say when that is not what I did. I didn’t say what he WOULD do!! I said what he DID do!! And it is there for everyone to read! Yet you and FT feel you know what he WOULD do. Your comments are speculation and unfounded in fact, mine is right there to be read and understood by anyone.

Actions and their intent fall within the realm of fair judgment. Lao Tzu does it, Chuang Tzu does, YOU do it, FT does it, HupGerk does it, Soy Kuil does it, apparently I am the only one forbidden this privilege!! Once again this is hypocrisy!

I will point out I never said I was a Taoist and secondly the allusion I am a Christian is merely an assumption as well.

Scott hello again,

What is my Intention to start this crap you are spewing? Oh No, was that a bad word?

Listen to yourself dude, everything you say that we are saying is bad and wrong to do you are as well being a hypocrite by saying what you are saying! Do you understand that at all??

So far you are being the biggest Hypocrite on this whole thread cause you have all your Philospies muddled up with ettiquette, christianity and and no understanding of the Tao. You do realise we dont live in Harmony and things are out of balance? Your actions has made what this thread is, not what i have said..in name calling. No one else was worried about name calling untill you seem to shift to that after i was told my teacher and history has been made up and its B.S. So if you havent noticed my name caling isnt really anything but a name, not what the question at hand is about! You seem to be the only person worried about that, when its about my lineage , my sifu and now its my character… You have lost the whole plot here and i think you should not get too deep into the TAO as you do not have a proper understanding of it.

Now its your turn to say Im a HYPOCRITE for saying what i said, but then you are still wrong.

Okey Dokey… bye bye
FT

Scott R. Brown,

Seriously,

Just let it go…

TaiChiBob,

Excellent post, short and to the point.

Sifu and older brothers,

Catch u on msn later, I will be in a meeting this morning but back after lunch.

HG

Ok Hup Gerk, i just missed you i was having dinner myself!

DAO FU and noodles …LOL

Hi FT,

Please don’t just call me a hypocrite. Tell me specifically what I have said that is hypocritical. I don’t like being a hypocrite so if you have found something “specific” that I have said that demonstrates my hypocrisy then please identify it specifically. Anyone can make unfounded comments. It does me no service to just tell me I am a hypocrite without identifying my “specific: error. How can I improve with merely baseless and senseless comments.

Hi HupGerk,

Let what go? I have as much right to post my opinions here as anyone else. You don’t have to agree and that is ok with me. I don’t expect or care if everyone or anyone accepts my view. But, I do have the right to state it. I answered questions that you asked; if you don’t like them that is ok too. You asked and I answered. If you don’t want the answers I give then I suggest you don’t ask next time.

I will continue to post as long as I am inclined to do so.

Many people formulate their opinions, but don’t really understand how or why they believe what they do. They accept what “sounds” good or what they are taught by an accepted authority. When they do this they really have no foundation for their beliefs. They cannot explain them, why they believe them or why they think they are correct views. This is called blind following. This type of person tends to not question the “Truth” of what they accept and are unable to reason clearly when they do try. Since they never examine their beliefs they are unable to actually defend them because they do not know WHY they are true. Therefore, their worldview is based upon opinion and not FACTS!! We may believe the world is flat if we so choose. But that doesn’t make it flat. We may argue all we want that it is flat, but it will always be round and it can be demonstrated to be round. No one here as been able to demonstrate their view to be valid. Empty criticism is just that, EMPTY!! I at least gave a reasoned argument for my view. I understand why I believe what I do because I have made the effort to think it through. All you can do is say let it go??? That is not a response! It is the response of someone who has no response.

I understand why I believe what I do so I am able to explain it and defend it. Since most here have not examined their own beliefs they can only make ineffective criticisms, ridicule and call others names.

Scott,

You answer my question yourself dude, hahahha you are one weird guy!!! :slight_smile:

God Bless
FT

S. R. Brown,

You didn’t understand my previous reply. I won’t bother anymore with this, it is unproductive and a waste of my time and energy. Good luck to you and take care.

HG

hahaha the funniest thread for a while long posts but nothing in them!

Hi Scott,

The reason I asked if you read my post is because I wanted to see if you could understand the subjective meaning of the sarcastic comments I wrote. Which is practically impossible here. Although my last two posts are sarcastic, they have an underlying meaning. People have much trouble reading here, and on other message boards. I try to be “fair” though, and give everyone the benefit of doubt.

You know, Lao Tzu said that the sage master manages his daily life without doing, and speaks his ideas without speaking. So what are you saying? I never said I know what Lao Tzu would do. I was being sarcastic. However, he might good and well do what I said. Yeah, you are right. If he heard this conversation, maybe he wouldn’t respond at all. According to his book he wouldn’t. But yet he wrote a book. He was responding to something that he felt. Listening to the sound of silence is beneficial. Wonderful. Next time I open a fortune cookie…

To answer your question, no I’m not a taoist. I am a human being who sees, hears, tastes, feels, smells, and so on. I believe that everything is nothing and nothing is everything. I believe that nothing is everything and everything is nothing. And all the while, I realize, in the end of it all, I don’t know shiot. I see the smarts of the world and make ignorance out of it. I see the ignorance of the world and make it out as clever. All the while sitting in the middle, and realizing, what difference does it make? I think you have mistaken me for someone who gives a fark. However, I will give you my judgement of some of the things you have wrote, just for fun. Don’t take offense, or do if you want to.

Your logic is sometimes as circular as a Chinaman’s on crack.

Greetings..

FT: Yes, we spar.. and the invitation to visit is open, sincere, and offered in hopes of building better friendships..

To all: I apologize for attempting to interject my perspectives in this dialogue.. one of my mentors has reminded me that “it is what it is”, and any other values or judgements only distract from the simple truths..

A little piece of wisdom that i have found much comfort in: We are traveling to where we have always been, from ignorance to enlightenment.. the vehicle is awareness..

I watched my looney cat chase its tail again.. it even tries to sneak-up on its own tail.. it sometimes catches it and bites it.. then it howls in pain and bites it again for causing the pain.. an endless source of amusement.. i think Lao Tzu could appreciate the symbolism..

Be well..