Fathers
I feel it is correct in many ways to look at the relationship of teacher to student, as father to son.
I know within the western world we pay our money and take our training, but the study of kung fu is so much more than just attending a college course.
If it were nothing more than this, then “lineage” that is so important to many of us would become irrelevent.
How many of us tell prospective employers the names of our college lecturers? very few if any!
It is not deemed important who taught us. ( Unless you study at Oxford/Cambridge or the US eqivilent ). Yet within martial arts the name of who taught you is in many ways as important as what you learn.
To have been a student of a great Master, is in many ways like having a reference from a previous employer.
The years spent training can say that the student was a person of good character, with high moral value. Else the Master would not teach them.
( We hope).
Therefore to have an affilation to, hence having the blessing of the Master adds more than just validation to a teachers art. It also adds respectibility and hopefully an insight to the good character of the Sifu.
This all being said you cannot take the knowledge away from the student, but instead it is the respectibility and good name of the expelled sifu that is raised as an issue.
In many ways this is a far greater punishment than it initially seems. For to be dis-associated by your master is like being dis-owned by your father and written out of his legacy.
This is where my sadness lies!
It must be just as painful for the father as for the son to have their relationship torn apart.
To be hurt so bad that you would cast out your own son, must be the most painful and regrettable act a father can do.
I wish only good things to all those involved in the incident, and hope that in time a reconcilliation might be possible, as regret of what might have been is a hard thing to live with in years to come.
regards
Colin…