Originally posted by apoweyn
[B]i imagine she’s still there, despite recognizing that she’s not learning how to fight, because she’s not particularly interested in fighting.
the prevailing view on this forum seems to be that martial arts are for combat, first and foremost. and i’ve got no complaints with that view. but it’s far from universal. plenty of us are hobbyists, who do what we do simply because we find it rewarding. for some of us, that’s not going to equate to fighting. or it’s going to equate to a particular (and potentially limited) form of fighting.
i know plenty of people who like taekwondo simply because they find it more fun to kick. boxing and wrestling might be necessary components of a full game plan. (sorry. hand skills and grappling skills. not necessarily boxing or wrestling.) but certain people just aren’t entertained by those things. and, really, in this day and age, if you’re not enjoying your martial arts, i think you’re wasting your time.
as for this woman remarking that sevenstar can really fight (and the preconceptions that reveals), i know how you feel. when i started eskrima, southeast asian martial arts were ‘enjoying’ the attention that MMA does now. if you knew eskrima, silat, bando, muay thai, etc. you were automatically assumed to be a killer. on the surface of it, that’s not really a big deal. you just shrug your shoulders and move on.
but i kinda felt like it was a very… hollow compliment, i suppose. when people said that, it wasn’t a reflection of me or my practice. they’d never seen me practice. they’re just reacting to the public image. and that was inherently unsatisfactory to me, as someone who was actually sweating bullets several times a week in the art. appreciation based solely on reputation was actually just as irritating as the art or my practice of it getting no appreciation at all.
i think, if you’re anything like me, you want to be judged for what you actually do and don’t do, by people who actually recognize and understand what you do. anything less feels unsatisfactory. not offensive. but not really pertinent either.
[shrug] i don’t know.
stuart b. [/B]
That pretty much sums up my thoughts on it.