So we have the age old argument about what art is better, what style of fighting is the best, ground fighting vs striking blah blah blah.
I turn 30 today and it has occurred to me it really doesn’t matter. Yep, thats right, you heard me, it doesn’t really matter.
My experiences up to date that have influenced the way I feel about it:
I have seen four fights fought using obvious martial skill, all four fights were ended using either Taekwon Do or Wrestling. Two arts any “serious” martial arts wouldn’t take seriously.
In each Art I have personally studied, Wing Chun, Kali and now Praying Mantis, It appears some people are really good, others are really bad, and in between is the majority. I still have yet to see any of these arts really dominate another art being used against them in sparring, it turned out the skill and drive of the person using their particular art was the biggest deciding factor. Some of these guys were big guys, some of these guys were small guys. Size and strength seemed to play a big part in what I have observed so far, it doesn’t always win but it seems to help a lot.
I can tell you this though, the grapplers seem to be pretty good on the ground, except for the bad ones. The strikers seem to be really good hitting, except again for the bad ones.
I have yet to see a secret or grand ultimate answer to close quarters combat except for the MP5 and M16 I carried in the Mrine Corp, and that really wasn’t a guarentee either, but my feeling was that grappler or striker I could probably beat you with it, unless you had one and were better then me.
So it turns out that it really is the man, or the woman, behind the art that matters the most. There are some pretty arts out there. The SPM I am studying looks pretty cool and I would be willing to bet a pretty good martial artist could make most of it work for them in just abot any situation. Wing Chuns not so pretty, but it turns out you still need a little more then just to be studying wing chun to be “good” at it. Kali is fun as hell, and brutal in my opinion, but again, like having a whole rack of tools, if you don’t know how, you can’t fix the car, and some guys just seem to be able to fix cars better then others, even though for the most part they are all using the same tools.
So my philosophy, starting out my third decade of existance is going to be concentrating on what I like and enjoy. I’m not going to care so much what it is you study or the guy next door, or the guy in class standing next to me. Who knows, whatever it is they might just be able to kick my ass no matter how much I have convinced myself their art sucks ![]()
good luck and happy training!