issues
brian,
you did say in your first post, that most people have agreed to a general truce, can you explain to me who these “people are”, where did you get this information from???
i see only two names on the statement.
i totally agree with you that the “idea” is a good one, if you read my first post here, you will understand that i too, say this and support it.
you say we shouldn’t bring this up, since it has been going on for over 50yrs, i too have said this, however one must ask, who should have stopped and let it rest??.
i will not go into detail here, i see no reason as this is a general forum, however, when the situation arose in the early 1950’s,(it was going on way before this, but not to the public), there was strong re-action to what was written and even too an advert in the hong kong papers, things settled down, and these where not spoken off again.
well to the general public anyway, and chiu kau si dai gung was supportive to lam jo si dai gung after these incidents.
so if everyone is asking that we stop bickering over this, i ask only one thing, why has it resurfaced??, what was the purpose of doing such a thing???
this did not come from certain families only one, the lam family, so why did they bring it up again??? how imbalanced is the argument, when those that take offence to it, get emotional, this is only normal human reaction.
should this subject be discussed by us, well unfortunatly it was brought out to the public by a general forum, on open web sites, by the reaction of these sites, the time of correctness was lost or given away.
is it our place to discuss things of this nature, well from a family/lineage personal level, NO! however since we are all family, and at times family members do things that they should know better,family are permitted to speak.
if you are hung kuen player, then these things are of importance, depending on your place depends or your actions.
do i think a truce is good for the entire community, the answer without question is YES, however i come back to my question, why are there only two names on the statement, where are the others???
doug,
i here what you are saying, just to correct first, it was yee chi wai sifu and lam chun fai sifu who had the discussion, not lam jo si dai gung, however i do understand the ethics of such discussions.
how can you say it is over, and not to bring up such things, if other family members still have issues with it?? chi ling sifu is asking questions, why is it these could not have been settled at the sametime lam chun fai sifu was in america, chi ling sifu was in the country at the time.
to that effect chan hon chung si dai gung,one of his son’s was also in america at the time, he could have also been advised of the meeting and been at the discussion.
chi ling sifu tried to get discussions going with lam chun fai sifu in hong kong, but these where not forth coming.
i see from all this, frustration from all sides, however if things need to be clarified,then all parities must get together and discuss.
in the old days arbitraries where used, this can still be accomplished today.
like i have said, action speaks louder than words, these actions must take place.
as i have said again and again, is it the personnal that is being looked at or is it the art??