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No offense Leonidas, but don’t do that to jbmmaster.
I was once in jbmmaster’s shoes, and discouragement is the last thing that would’ve helped me get to where I am now.
By the way, jbmmaster’s job IS his community college education.
Whatever the outcome of that is, I’ll be rooting for him to get the most out of his time there.
Notice I’m not necessarily decreeing that he should finish his CC education. I know successful professionals that quit that route early and did much better in life because of it.
I think that the 10-year waterline is roughly true not just from a training standpoint, but from a business one.
To me, the development of the martial portion is the easy and less time consuming part. Certain styles (particularly the much older traditional ones) do not require more than 10 years training to gain proficiency in.
However, the mental development needed to be a teacher, businessman, leader, diplomat, economist, facilitator - those are far more challenging than acquisition of fighting abilities. It was that part that took me 10 years to get, not the actual martial training part.
As far as black belts and stuff go, I am not convinced that one needs one to become a sifu. I never received my black belt in any style, yet I trained in traditional kung fu and (most importantly) can show another how to use the art in a freefighting situation. Besides, a shodan (1st degree black belt) means that one is only BEGINNING his training, not ending it.
One year probably isn’t enough to become a sifu. But after a few of those “one years”, one can be ready. As Cheng Man Ching (a famous sifu himself) said, “learning kung fu is like laying down one sheet of paper at a time to build a big pile”. Every sifu in history was a 1-year student at first.
I listened to the discouragement of others for 10 years, and it nearly led to my downfall. Then when I embraced my dream of becoming a professional sifu, things dramatically turned around for me.