Re: oh jeeezus!
Originally posted by Mat
[B]I hate buddhists! Why don’t they just give you a bill???!!!
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Indeed, a bill would make things far easier.
The process, however, makes a lot more sense if we can understand it as something other and more significant than “fees for services rendered.” [Considerable food for thought here.]
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OK, I’ve got a problem already…
108 HKD = 1500 JPY (I’m in Japan… so that’s what I’m thinking in).
or
108 USD = 12000 JPY.
Bit of a difference!
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To repeat myself, think “significant.”
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And should that be every day, every session, or once for the four days?!

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Especially since it appears you are talking about more than one visit, I would say “it depends.” If it were me, and if it was not easy to find out customary fees from the instructor or their designee, I would make every reasonable effort to get some idea from fellow students of that group, and follow their lead or advice.
Aside from that, I personally would think in the order of magnitude of $100/hour for private time with a top teacher; proportionally less for group time. Understanding that sometimes a virtual hour may stretch into something longer than a clock hour. 
If you are going to attend for several days, you might consider paying a regular tuition (whatever that may be), and then at your last visit, offer a special gift in appreciation for the privilege of being allowed to visit. You wouldn’t want to give the impression you were taking a free ride by giving nothing at the start; yet saving the best for last can leave a favorable final impression, and one of more sincere gratitude (rather than that fee-for-service or “I buy you” type of mentality).
There is also the matter of how much you can afford. Many, if not most honorable teachers will fully understand and appreciate this [highly variable] factor. And of those who have firmer expectations, many of them will have established fee structures, thus alleviating some of the mystery.
If you balance all these things, remember to take nothing and no one for granted, err on the side of generosity rather than not, and let your conscience be your guide, you may not go far wrong. If you are sincere in your other forms of gratitude, that also means a lot.
Others may have a different set of heuristics, and individual circumstances will vary.
Appreciate your patience: I know you were all ******* gwailo once…
Little doubt I always will be.
Regards,