Hi Dave,
Here’s my 2 cents.
From a choreography perspective, extending the fook sau (and tan sau) help to train the elbow position and connection of the arm to the body. Withdrawing the wu sau provides a method to bring the arm back and also trains the elbow position and body while ‘swallowing’ force.
I view all bridges as ‘listening’ so in that regard, it shouldn’t matter whether the bridge is extending or receiving, it still is feeling and sensing. Also, I don’t really like the term active and passive because, to me, everything we do is active.
We are always acting upon the opponent’s center even if that means we are receiving/withdrawing our bridge to extend him or extending our bridge to jam him. Both are active, IMHO, but the difference is in the timing involved (before or at/over extension), the manipulation of force (intercept before it is at maximum or leading it once it is at maximum), and control of the space between us (moving myself closer or creating distance).
In the particular case of fook sau, the ‘subdue hand’, it makes more sense to me that this family of bridges is more aggressive in nature. I don’t mean in the heavy forward pressure sense, but in the conceptual sense of attacking, probing, and destroying weaknessess in the opponents structure (lop sau, pak sau, gum sau, etc.). Subdue denotes a more controlling, manipulative nature.
I don’t necessarily see wu sau as only going forward to ward off an attack just as fook sau can be used to either gum sau (into) or jut sau (withdrawing/leading) without changing shape.
Wu sau can be used in both ways depending upon what you want. I can keep my body still and extend the wu sau, or I can keep my wu sau still and move my body. It depends upon the position you want relative to your opponent and what you are feeling at the time.
If I feel a heavy force, I can withdraw the wu sau to over extend him rather than trying to hold my position and keep him out. Similarly, I can use my wu sau to establish contact and then lead the force in another direction away from my center. In these examples, the wu sau is substantial, but not rigid, and must feel the opponent’s intention and force. In some cases, I might need to go forward first to make a connection before withdrawing to lead.
Did that muddy up the waters a little bit more? 
Dzu