[QUOTE=Jimbo;1136384]When were people saying that a style’s (in this case CLF) effectiveness is based on how somebody plays a form?[/QUOTE]
These comments were made:
[QUOTE=Indrafist;1136313]Good CLF is amongst the best TCMA there is.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nm_DuRzmgGc[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=sanjuro_ronin;1136359]Its a beautiful form that shows the heart of good CLF.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=hskwarrior;1136368]Bro, Choy Lee Fut was created to FIGHT. China’s revolutions were the chosen the place our elders sharpened their skills. that, and many challenge matches, but these sometimes ended in death. That was great for them and good for us because at least we get to learn tried and tested techniques that work. [/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=hskwarrior;1136373]Choy Lee Fut HAS this…ALL of it… plus more
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… after someone asked for a comparison and the evidence to support such statements was a form video. 
If someone asked me if I thought they should train MMA or TCMA. And since this is a forum and we can only use words or better yet, video, to prove arguments, I would post:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AomhzXJ1Xvo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABqD8Odaebw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pvKRyTSr5Mo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_LZVDVEKRrI
[QUOTE=Jimbo;1136384]
I remember some time back, hskwarrior advised someone who’d posted a question that if you listen too much to some people’s comments on these forums, you’ll become discouraged from wanting to learn ANYthing. That’s very true.[/QUOTE]
So if someone calls into question the way the majority of TCMA is being trained people get discouraged and want to quit?
I would say those people aren’t really interested in learning martial arts.
I want my weaknesses highlighted so I can improve them. I want that because I want to be the best martial artist I can be. More so than clinging to any idea or tradition. The tradition of martial arts is to be the best you can be. Also one of self enlightenment, which can’t begin until one is truthful with themself.
[QUOTE=Jimbo;1136384]
To the original question, pick the environment/art that you feel best suits you, and the teacher you would feel most comfortable with. Neither CLF nor Pak Mei/Bak Mei is better than the other. There is only what is best (or the best available) for yourself.[/QUOTE]
Very true.
But the minute one asks for a comparison, then weights and measures are required. And martial arts in general is an issue of comparison which goes back to my major overall point: martial arts are about combat effectiveness. If form plays a role in this is up to each individual’s preference. But results, again, can me measured. TCMA’s results are not good.
Be discouraged. Attack me personally. Continue down the same path… again, that’s for the individual to decide. Its your martial art. You determine if its coal or a diamond… which is ironic, because that’s a matter of pressure. Which you don’t get from form and non resistance training.