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My thoughts weren’t meant as a personal attack. I’ve been on both sides of this issue. If you’ve seen my “what style did you study” post, I’ve studied under a guy with a messy lineage and a questionable style- but a great teacher with good skill and a style that I enjoyed. I’ve also driven 2 hours 2 or 3 times a week to study with a school that had a great lineage and a great style.
Given the opportunity to live in either town any longer I would’ve stayed with either of those two schools for the rest of my life and been happy.
Unfortunately my destiny hasn’t been shaped as such. I’m sick of bouncing around and I want a style I can live w/ and train the rest of my life. Now maybe I could’ve stuck with either of those 2 other schools long distance and continued practising the little i knew and saw either sifu once a year. I chose not to, leaving it up to destiny to provide me with a style that was better for me.
Back to what I was saying though, I said I’d ask around. It’s hard to believe that a teacher with good skill and another teacher with god’s gift to lineages would be completely unknown by my previous instructors, the people at KFO, old friends, or even tournament results. If their skill level was so high, chances are they know somebody, competed somewhere, produced a student who did either, or have advertised somewhere. If their lineage was so great, it wouldn’t be hard to track down one of their contemporaries (classmates) via the internet and get a second opinion on the individual (let alone the style). It’s not THAT hard to verify a lineage. Personally, I’m not looking to be famous but having had to give up 2 great schools to persue my destiny, I wanna train in something real good & something I’d at least be able to do a little research about.
The question posed the situation where both schools had instructors of about equal skill level. Obviously you’ve got strong feelings for your sifu: friendship, admiration, etc. I bet you had that strong feeling the moment you walked in the door too… The situation posed in the question seemed to be from someone who was a bit “blah” about both styles. Usually one school or one teacher will make a stronger impression on you. Why waste the money if you’re only training there because it’s convenient? Kung fu is not about convenience, it’s about long hard hours of blood, sweat, tears, heart, pain, practise, training, and SACRIFICE.
I doubt you stuck with your school, going to class everyday joyfully thinking “hey, i could be doing something more famous over there, but this place is just so gosh-darn close!” That’s like going out with your girlfriend because she’s easy: it just don’t last