If you could choose, would you like your gf to train martial arts ? If so, which style ? Same so you two can identify with each other ? Or different so there are more to talk about ?
And what level ? Beginner so you will forever be the source of their knowledge so they have to worship you ? Equal to yours ? Or well above you so you can have a goddess by your side ??
Me ? I would choose someone who is on the same level as I am that trains two or more japanese arts, hopefully with weapons experience.
Sigh… I guess I will die, never having tasted the sweetness of love…
edit: no, you may only select items related to martial arts. Looks and other… interesting qualities are irrelevent
I mean is it the “worship the ground she walks on” kinda thing?
The type where it’s not even so much looks based (albeit it plays a significant role) but you can’t stop thinking about her, you’re crazy about her, you can’t get enough of being around her, and you’re like goin nuts.
Coz if so, I think I’d dig just about whatever she was into, doubt I’d even have a choice.
Or is it “we cool friends just hangin out” kinda thing?
Like you think she’s attractive and she turns you on, but you go out mostly because she’s cool to hang out with…
In that case, she could elevate her hotness by being into an MA, preferrably something like BJJ (no sick oral jokes here).
Tai chi wouldn’t be so bad either, but I think I’d rather have a c0cky grappler chick than a granola eater.
Skill level’s not a big deal. Wouldn’t be a big deal if she was able to slap submissions on me at will (i mean that’s kind of the game in the first place), she’d still probably be open for a ground and pound (you dirty, dirty little wankers…).
Someone of say Jenna Castillo’s caliber, or Susie P could probably knock me out at will; but otherwise I doubt I’d really be looking to compete with my girl on that level. I have a real hard time hitting back in sparring sessions with females; which is selfish I know, but at the same time just doesn’t feel right.
Don’t know that I could see myself going through with marrying the second one, but I’ve got a feeling the second one’s the one you end up living better with.
Originally posted by Chang Style Novice Yeah, but what if she lets go of the leash and horsewhip?
then it loses a lot of the fun value.
honestly, i’d like it if my fiancée was into it as well, but at my own skill level. she may one day wish to learn, but right now it holds no value to her other than 1. it makes me happy, and 2. it will keep her safe. outside of that, she doesn’t give two ****s about martial arts.
I’ve identified the woman of my dreams already… but it turns out she’s not even real. ever read the alien vs predator 3 book series? The main character is machiko something. Good God what would I give to have her materialize in the real world.
I attached a pic of the covers.
The girl on the bottom right is a painting a I bought. Kind of has the “essence” of the girl i’d want to be with. Same with the bottom left.
Dunno why I like this chick but: http://www.yeahyeahyeahs.com/
Voice, personality, some of the lyrics on the last album, the new york thing, i dunno…
Weird when you don’t think someone’s all that hot but you dig 'em… like a lot.
I could go with the old standbyes of Pink, Allysa Milano, JLo (till she started singin), Jessica Alba (who I lost almost everything for after first time hearing her interview, but finished the deal with that movie shiver), the blonde from the Sopranos, Kelly Hu, brooke burke, shannon elizabeth, and anybody else who could fall into that category on looks.
But media gals don’t usually do all that much for me; at least not for a while.
Then again, I haven’t had a good ole crush on anyone for a while.
I prefer a girl that’s about as tall as me, maybe a bit taller. A good tan is nice, but it’s not a requirement. Can’t be a stick figure, either; girl’s gotta be athletic. She has to lift weights. Martial arts is a friggin good thing (till you start dating inside the school, then you’re fugged).
My girlfriend currently is about as tall as me (when she’s not wearing shoes), looks athletic (though she isn’t), has a perfect face and perfect body . . . don’t see no way to improve . . . except for her favorite color . . . it’s friggin blue. If it were red, then you know she was heaven sent. But BLUE?
thinking about the girl i had the biggest crush on in my whole life; who recently started talkin with me again after a long time of not hearin from her. planning out what I want in a girl doesn’t seem to correlate exactly to when I completely fall for one.
like i said, tough one to call…
my ideal girl’s cute, with big doe eyes, petite, not too boney (which might be “really boney” for other folks- hard to give a metric), some curve to the behind, but stretching out the back of the jeans isn’t necessary (or even all that good in some extreme cases), not huge into chest, just don’t want her looking too sickly I guess…
But then I end up falling for these girls that are a little higher up on the “voluptuous” scale; closer to what everyone else likes…
Visually it’s not as appealing to me, but being up close and personal’s a different story.
Think I still fall in the Xebby category right now for chix…
I could probably get out of it, but I’m really picky.
But I think I’m starting to realize what I really want and not holdin out for what’s just visually appealing.
I’d probably do a lot better if I actually talked to girls, regardless of what I look like these days. hehe
I honestly prefer a girl who does more european fighting… I’m in the SCA and at events, I love watching these girls do archery, fencing, broadswords, stickfighting, etc.
hotness.
But in general, as long as the girl knows how to kick some butt, its hotness by me!
Originally posted by BMore Banga
[B]Dunno why I like this chick but: http://www.yeahyeahyeahs.com/
Voice, personality, some of the lyrics on the last album, the new york thing, i dunno…
Weird when you don’t think someone’s all that hot but you dig 'em… like a lot.
I could go with the old standbyes of Pink, Allysa Milano, JLo (till she started singin), Jessica Alba (who I lost almost everything for after first time hearing her interview, but finished the deal with that movie shiver), the blonde from the Sopranos, Kelly Hu, brooke burke, shannon elizabeth, and anybody else who could fall into that category on looks.
But media gals don’t usually do all that much for me; at least not for a while.
Then again, I haven’t had a good ole crush on anyone for a while. [/B]
you’ve got good taste. Also, don’t forget Gabrielle Union, Eva Mendez or Gwen Stefani.
Back in the day, I used to really be into Daisy Fuentes.
Originally posted by Chinwoo-er
[B]If you could choose, would you like your gf to train martial arts ? If so, which style ? Same so you two can identify with each other ? Or different so there are more to talk about ?
And what level ? Beginner so you will forever be the source of their knowledge so they have to worship you ? Equal to yours ? Or well above you so you can have a goddess by your side ??
Me ? I would choose someone who is on the same level as I am that trains two or more japanese arts, hopefully with weapons experience.
Sigh… I guess I will die, never having tasted the sweetness of love…
edit: no, you may only select items related to martial arts. Looks and other… interesting qualities are irrelevent [/B]
As far as MA, I wouldn’t be selective in that way - I want her training something that she will be able to use practically. Doesn’t really matter the style. In the case of Mrs Star, boxing and grappling…almost. I can get her t box, she loves it, but she’s not into judo or bjj. The idea of getting thrown or armbarred scares her.
However, I try and stress to her that if she were to run into someone who intended to rape her, he wants her on the ground. Consequently, she should be able to fight from there.
any gf who trained inb kung fu would be cool. she could do tkd maybe, not karate unless she was really hot. :o
the best would be a wushu girl, that is really good. she could teach me some wushu stuff, she could help me run my school in the future :o or a girl who trained in the same stuff i did. or a chick who trained in monkey style :o
I no longer have a girlfriend who could train. But yeah if I had a girlfriend, I wouldn’t mind if she trained in something. Other than what I train in, so we could have some fun with style vs style.
my gf is awsome! she’s everything I ever wanted in a girl, honestly. She used to train Aikido n she’ll probebly pick up some CMA within a few years. I dig it
