About Soft
I studied under various teachers. In 1982, I studied under Dr. Khoe who was a private student of Wang Kiu he said to use your muscles only for attack but your structure for defense. He said he hated when people talked about soft in martial arts. He said you cannot just be soft. Instead he liked the word INTERNAL to describe what he did.
Then I have met another teacher who didn’t like the word internal because it could be taken the wrong way as internal energy that he said he didn’t rely on or possess as far as he knew. Instead he said it was just good body mechanics.
In fact William C.C. Chen the Tai Chi master who learned from Cheng Man Ching, also told me the same thing. He was also a believer of highly refined body mechanics and didn’t attribute anything to Chi power. His feeling was very soft but he hit like a truck yet he did have structure in his movements.
What Dr. Khoe saw was that many students were using too much muscle to hold back forces, to push forces away. He himself was very supple and relaxed at all times and the only time you felt something diferent was when you got hit. Yet he always used the positions from the forms. You could clearly see Tan sau, Bong sau, Fook sau, Jut sau etc.
I asked Dr. Khoe if his teacher Wang Kiu was that relaxed. He said where do you think I got it from? So his answer was yes. Then I met Wang Kiu and he told stories of Lok Yiu being very very soft but was able to hit very powerfully. He said you could see Lok Yiu’s movements coming but couldn’t stop them. He didn’t know much about Leung Sheung. Wang Kiu said the early generation mostly all had this very relaxed feeling. He said Yip Man taught that to all and that it wasn’t the case that as he got older that he got to teaching a softer approach to Wing Chun.
In the early 1990’s I met Kenneth Chung and had the chance to play with him for an hour. I expected that as long as he had some structure then I could apply Pak sau, Bill sau or whatever and do something. However at that time he offered me nothing that I could work with. He was very relaxed as if he had no bones and he was very rooted and hit powerfully. My success rate was zero whereas with anyone else I had met before then I always had some success. Kenneth Chun used structure but it was not a rigid structure. It was like an illusion of structure. As soon as you touched that structure it wouldn’t exist anymore and would change to something else.
One of our female students had the opportunity to Chi sau with Wong Shun Leung in Hong Kong. On his video tape he looks very snappy, forceful and quite structured. But this student said in Chi sau with her, he was very relaxed, very sticky very sensitive and very good. She had felt many kinds of Wing Chun before that.
I think a good athlete of any kind or a good musician of any kind eventually is able to perform from a very relaxed state. From this state they can flow, they can be hard, they can be soft , they can be anything inbetween.
Soft sometimes has the connotation of just being limp. But just being limp doesn’t work. In a limp state the body parts are not connected and don’t work together very well. Being too rigid is also not a good thing. I have met various Wing Chun students who work with very rigid structures and attained a fair level of skill. However I think this approach is more limiting and more tiring than the relaxed approach.
Some good people in martial arts don’t seem to have any form or they have such a large variety of forms that there seems to be no form. But if you would take a stop action snapshot of their action, then you would see what looks like form. In action there is only attack and change.
On the relaxed approach, I once met a student of Lok Yiu who used to teach for Lok Yu in Hong Kong. His name was Winston Wan. At the time I was pretty relaxed and had no problems handling all kinds of people. However he picked me apart like a true chess master would pick apart a novice chess player. His comment to me was to practice in a little more firm structured way for six months in order to establish the proper connections between my body parts. He said soft is good but unless you have the sensitivity and skill to back it up, it’s also a good way to get yourself killed.
One more thing about soft. In the 1970’s, I studied Tai Chi under master Raymond Chung his students were very very soft in their feeling. They were difficult to attack because there was nothing there. Nothing was presented to attack. But the master himself didn’t feel soft at all. Yet when I pushed the master from any angle, in any direction there was always no resisitance. My pushed always went somewhere and I could not find something to lock onto. So he was sort of like pushing a bicyle wheel. The wheel itself is not a soft object at all yet when you push on the wheel, it merely rotates and thus neutralizes the force.