[QUOTE=SanHeChuan;750072]From a psychological view point, many people in our society never really grow up. Often times those considered most successful are those whom fulfill their childhood dreams as adults, we have day time TV shows to tell their “amazazing”
stories.
Many of the choices in my life stim from the fact that I still want to be an X-man. I study kung fu and joined the Marines, and even considered becoming a firefighter. All because I played with G.I.Joe’s and read comic books and my childhood heroes were of the superhero variety.
Even for the people who can be considered grown up, their childhood memories can be powerful incentives.
For women the more you can tap into their childhood fantasy’s the happier you will make them. Little girls dream of their wedding days and as adults consider it one of the most important days of their life. There are many things that are common childhood stories etc, like the white knight, but each woman is and individual. Understanding these things can help you to understand your woman, and why what they think/do often seems to conflict with your reality.
In a way it’s kinda like how our dogs always act like puppies, because we always treat them like puppies. :p[/QUOTE]
You and I have so much in common. And your guru-like knowledge of the b1tches impress me greatly. Please go on.
I agree that there are a LOT of crazy women out there, but I have had the good fortune not to have had any relationship-encounters with them.
The closest was an online relationship in my young, foolish teenage days. After a few good, stable months, the girl just gradually stopped paying any attention to me over a 4 week period with no explanation whatsoever- and believe me, I did everything I could to find out if anything was wrong. It didn’t help that she had made “if either of us finds someone else we will break apart with no hard feelings” a condition of our relationship, such as it was- I thought that was kind of odd at first, but I was young and naieve. AND she was always going on about how she felt she was “destined” to marry this one guy she knew who was going to seminary school. After being relationship-deprived, I had been venting to a friend of mine (who is now my wife) who agreed that she was just flippin insane. After a few MORE weeks of patiently trying to figure out what the heck was wrong with my “girlfriend” my soon-to-be girlfriend and I became more serious, and eventually I broke things off with “her”. She was fine with it- until she found out I had someone else… then she went out-and-out bonkers. I guess expecting her to heed her own agreement was just too much to ask.
That said, most of the crazy women I’ve been around have been my part of my family- My Mom, my sister, my aunts (on my Mom’s side for the most part, though my dad does have one FREAKY sister, and a sister-in-law who is “Certified” if you get my drift) My Mother-in-Law (natch) etc. etc. ad nauseum. One of my aunts, and my Mother-in-Law are out and out whackos, and what makes things worse is the fact that they’re always going on about how they need a man in their life. But woe to the man who actually heeds that call! Don’t even get me started about the women I’ve had to be around at my job- mostly my previous one. My current job has a lot less drama, thankfully.
FWIW I’m married (going on 3 years) to that good friend that helped me through that relationship strife… we were dating for 4 years prior, 2 of them long-distance-only with the occasional visit to each other. She has her crazy moments, but so do I- we balance each other out like that 
FWIW I’m married (going on 3 years) to that good friend that helped me through that relationship strife… we were dating for 4 years prior, 2 of them long-distance-only with the occasional visit to each other. She has her crazy moments, but so do I- we balance each other out like that
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3 years is just the start. You won’t know until 7.
I have to say, I’m 39 now. I really think most of the good women are taken, and the few that were good got ruined by abusive men they were in relatinships before.
At my age, I have decided that getting laid is all that is important, and then only at her house…give her nothing but a cell number. 
[QUOTE=Royal Dragon;750075]I accidentally sent her a text. It was supposed to be for another friend with a similar name(same first letter of the name), but I was driving and clicked on her number by accident.
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you were texting ?
while driving ?
theres smarts lol
[QUOTE=Royal Dragon;750118][I]
3 years is just the start. You won’t know until 7.
I have to say, I’m 39 now. I really think most of the good women are taken, and the few that were good got ruined by abusive men they were in relatinships before.
At my age, I have decided that getting laid is all that is important, and then only at her house…give her nothing but a cell number. :p[/QUOTE]
Too true…
I know that’s true of at least 3 of the REAL psychos in my family, and 2 of the “sorta” psychos. That’s not to say anything bad about the latter 2- they just have issues that keep them from getting close to their men. A big part of that is because they were treated like crap by guys in previous relationships. Add to this the fact that in at least 4 of those cases, their fathers and brothers were real jerks, and in one case, highly abusive. It’s a rule of thumb that if a woman’s father treated her well (but not spoiled by him,) she’ll be emotionally stable… there are many exceptions of course, but it’s rather the same for guys- if a guy’s mother or mother figure and/or sister(s) is a complete bat-sh!t psycho they will probably have a lot of pent-up resentment that they direct toward other women.
In fact, I think Father issues are part of the reason that our society tends to propagate a sort of “instinctive” mistrust of men on the part of women. Hence, in our society the idea that a woman has to “protect herself” from men seems rational; while the idea that a man must “protect himself” from women seems misogynist. I believe both are valid to a certain extent.
[I]you were texting ?
while driving ?
theres smarts lol[/I]
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My Kung Fu is good, and allowes me to multitask. Besides, I just sent one of the quicknotes, so it’s not like I had to spell anything. It was just clicking on the links in the phone. It’s no different than changeing radio stations.
You should be worried about the times I am E-mailing, and posting on KFM while I drive :eek:
only women?
I’m pretty sure that the whoel lot of us, lock, stock and barrel are insane and blissfully unnaware of our insanity.
which is a good thing.
anyway, i’m gonna assume you blew it by farting during the entree? (no pun intended)
LOL!!! Good thing I wasn’t drinking tea when I read that!
[QUOTE=Royal Dragon;750163]LOL!!! Good thing I wasn’t drinking tea when I read that! :D[/QUOTE]
Why don’t you just stop looking for a partner/wife/whatever? I don’t really understand why you persist in this.
If you’re looking for somebody over 35, you’ll only wind up with somebody who wants you to do a lot of work around the house in return for sex about once a month or less.
Because I can date many, and get laid every week.
[QUOTE=Royal Dragon;750168]Because I can date many, and get laid every week.[/QUOTE]
Hmmm … okay … I wouldn’t do that because of STDs but what you do is up to you.
Have you ever considered that most sane women 35-45 or so are looking for a long term committment so perhaps by looking for dating and sex without committment you are disqualifying the sane ones?
I mean, it’s hard to believe all women over 35 are nutso. Then again, I don’t date, so I don’t really know.
I have noticed a pattern, the ones who are worth being with, are also too smart to ever stay with me very long. The dumber ones seem to want to stay with me, but are so crazy that they damage the contentment I have found in my life, so i run away as soon as I realise how they are.
Deep down, I’d like a soulmate, but since it’s become apparent that i will never find one, I have to settle with a different wild, kinky, sex crazed outragiously hot girl every weekend (sometimes two Yippeee!!).
I catagorise them now, potential freinds, sex partners, possible mate (Not to many in that cat), and relate to them accordingly. I try to weed out the wacky ones early on, and I am getting better at it. I still have some long time female freinds that give me plenty of grief though, so I am not totally free.
I mean, it’s hard to believe all women over 35 are nutso. Then again, I don’t date, so I don’t really know.
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Trust me, if they are in thier mid to late 30’s, and not in at least a commited relationship, there is a reason. All the good ones are taken by now.
[QUOTE=Royal Dragon;750172]I mean, it’s hard to believe all women over 35 are nutso. Then again, I don’t date, so I don’t really know.
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Trust me, if they are in thier mid to late 30’s, and not in at least a commited relationship, there is a reason. All the good ones are taken by now.[/QUOTE]
Maybe you can steal some woman away from her underserving husband.
But just judging by what I’ve come across, there seem to be a lot of single moms out there who seem to be in decent shape and are looking for guys. Maybe instead of looking online you can go to professional conventions or something where women trying to make more money are going.
I mean, basically I run into these single mom types trying to find men at a lot of places. Unfortunately, they seem to be clueless about where men are.
For example, when we moved we were staying at this housing complex for a while, and the people there would always be planning these events. Wine tastings, food tastings, Christmas ornament making, etc.
And they were always trying to get me to go to these things. So one time I made the mistake of going. It was like single mom central. It really appears they plan these things so they can snag guys.
I will be going to events sponsored by the art and yoga studio I am trying to set up my Primordial Tai Chi class at. Maybe I will find a deacent one there ehy?
[QUOTE=Royal Dragon;750180]I will be going to events sponsored by the art and yoga studio I am trying to set up my Primordial Tai Chi class at. Maybe I will find a deacent one there ehy?[/QUOTE]
Could be. A lot of new agey types are nutso, though.
Try to find the single moms around and a lot of them seem to hang out with their single mom friends and their kids, kindof like a surrogate family. Complaining why they can’t find decent guys.
I wouldn’t recommend it just because first thing you’ll be doing favors for them like fixing up their house, picking up their kids and stuff like that, but if that’s what you’re into, that’s where I’ve found them.
Like the housing Christmas party. There were at least 8 single moms, all in good shape, hair done, nice clothes, then hanging around a Christmas party complaining to each other why there weren’t any decent guys there.
First thing I told the first one when I went there was that I dumped my last girlfriend because she wanted to spend my money and wanted me to fix up the house all the time.
That evidently immediately put me off their ‘decent guy’ list because they didn’t bother me after that.
LOL!! I have heard of lying to Get laid, but never to gaurentee it won’t happen!!
[QUOTE=Royal Dragon;750186]LOL!! I have heard of lying to Get laid, but never to gaurentee it won’t happen!![/QUOTE]
Well, I don’t really want to have to deal with somebody like that. I mean, they’re just looking for a tool.
How shallow is it to just want to spend some guy’s money and leech off of him and make him do work for you?
That is what women do though?
[QUOTE=Royal Dragon;750197]That is what women do tough?[/QUOTE]
Women have equal rights and they can work. They don’t have to spend a guy’s money.
They’ve done a lot of studies that show that the so-called ‘wage gap’ is really just because women tend to avoid dangerous jobs and jobs that require a lot of hours, responsibilities, science, and stuff like that.
They say that if you look at men in the same jobs that most women go into, the men tend to actually make a little bit less than the women do for the same number of hours.