Sex and Chi

[i]Originally posted by [Censored] Practices like Semen Retention are tied in with Chinese hang ups about sex. So its difficult to determine if this practice is really beneficial or it is just an extension of cultural biases.

What sexual hangups??

Most of the strict rules and taboos are fairly new, check some of the old pillow books, statues and similar.

Than head also over to Korea, and Japan and visit some of now rarely celebrated fertility Festivals where HUUGE phalluses and similar are carried around town, etc.

100yrs ago the were a lot less hang-ups than there are today.

And many Koreans, Japanese and Chinese are rediscovering the “lost” knowledge and art-objects.

One country that is notoriously hung-up about sex and it’s practices I think is the USA, read recently an article about trials and punishment for offenders dating back froma few centuries ago to the 1930’s.

Cheers.

Um, guess what guys. If you don’t nut every so often, your body does it for you when you sleep. Do you know why?

Not only do I know why, I know how to stop it. But I dare not disturb your natural routines! :smiley:

What do you think?

Sweet dreams, cupcakes!

3 Questions:

  1. Why, since you said you know why. I have my theories, but they’re western medicine. What are yours?

  2. How would you stop it? Just curious cuz sex dreams can be messy.

  3. Who’s that thing in you avatar? I saw a cartoon with him in it once. They were like talking to these 2-dimensional beings from a video game or something and one of them shot this little black square from a gun and it moved really slow. It was like a year ago so I don’t remember really, but I remember laughing my ass off.

IronFist

" How would you stop it? Just curious cuz sex dreams can be messy. " Iron Fist

sex without ejeculation/ strong perineum pulling the energy upward in the small heaven circulation.

THERE IS NO NEED TO BE CELLIBENT EJECULATION FREE SEX IS MORE PLEASUREABLE,LASTS LONGER, AND THE ORGASM GOES THROUGH YOUR WHOLE BODY LIKE A F**KING TITAL WAVE

try it
youll see!

dude i’m talking about stopping it while you’re sleeping.

I’ve heard you can always push up on your perennium<sp> during sex when you’re about to blow, but I heard that’s REALLY bad for you.

IronFist

hmmmm

I think its obvious from your the Chinese have hang-ups about sex that your amazing generalisations go down in history as almost runs for most coveted trolls.

Hang ups about sex? With a population of 1.3 billion, hmm, someone surely likes making love. Takes two to tango and they seem to go back to the well quite a bit LOL.

Hang ups? I don’t think so. Maybe they aren’t so obsessed with it. Rather than watching and talking about, they do it. Besides, martial arts and artists aren’t the center stage in China. How many "how to"sex books can you write? Hey, how about those Chinese Jerry Springer shows?

Don’t be so uncritical and all-accepting of the tenets of Western Science and its own hidden metaphysical agenda: Saviours of the World in the White Lab Coat. Where is BF Skinner when I need him?

The bookworms have their own hangups and limitations.

"it has become a truism by now that scientists are not mere knowledge acquisition machines; they are guided by emotion and intuition as we as by cold reason and calculation. Scientists are rarely so human. I have found, so at the mercy of their fears and desires, as when they are confronting the limits of knowledge.

THE GREATEST SCIENTISTS WANT, ABOVE ALL, TO DISCOVER TRUTHS ABOUT NATURE (IN ADDITION TO ACQUIRING GLORY, GRANTS AND TENURE AND IMPROVING THE LOT OF MANKIND): THEY WANT TO KNOW.

They hope (subjective faith, wishing it were so) and trust that the truth is attainable, not merely an ideal or asymptote, which they eternally approach. They also believe, as I do, that the quest for knowledge is by far the noblest and most meaningful of all human activities. p. 5

The most common strategy of the strong scientist is to point to all the shortcomings of current scientific knowledge, to all the questions left unanswering given the limitations of human science:

How, exactly was the universe created?
Could our universe be justone of an infinite number of universes?
Could quarks and electrons be composed of stillsmall particulars, ad infinitium?
What does quantum mechanics really mean?
(MOST QUESTIONS CONCERNING MEANING CAN ONLY BE ANSWERED IRONICALLY, AS LITERARY CRITICS KNOW).
Biology has its own slew of insoluble riddles.
How, exactly, did life begin on earth?
Just how inevitable was life’s origin and its subsequent history?
(p. 7)

The End of Science: Facing the Limits of Knowledge in the Twilight of the Scientifc Age, John Horgan (former senior writer at Scientific American).

Scientists are 21st Century Eunuchs dressed in Daoist Drag. They seek immortality through the mythology of their unbiased genetic research similar to what ancient Chinese emperors sought.

Human nature is human nature, no matter how you dress it up! I love them in their quasi-objective, born again stances, as if they have transcended their own humanness.
LOL

You ought to read the Skeptical Inquirer to really see how kranked up they are about TCM. LOL

Its all pretty funny.

You said B.F. Skinner. That’s a HUGE swear in my book!:stuck_out_tongue:
And like Nazis and the KKK, neobehaviorism just won’t die and go away.:frowning:

[QUOTE]Originally posted by RAF
[B]Hang ups about sex? With a population of 1.3 billion, hmm, someone surely likes making love. Takes two to tango and they seem to go back to the well quite a bit LOL.

***My term about Hang ups refers to Semen Retention. In my mind it is a “hang up” to think that your semen have some kind of “vital” force. We will come back to the word “vital” in this post.

Don’t be so uncritical and all-accepting of the tenets of Western Science and its own hidden metaphysical agenda: Saviours of the World in the White Lab Coat. Where is BF Skinner when I need him?

***How 'bout don’t pigeon hole me. Science is a tool. But one among many.

The bookworms have their own hangups and limitations.

***No…really…repressed scientists?

"it has become a truism by now that scientists are not mere knowledge acquisition machines; they are guided by emotion and intuition as we as by cold reason and calculation. Scientists are rarely so human. I have found, so at the mercy of their fears and desires, as when they are confronting the limits of knowledge.

***Scientists are obviously “inspired” by “divine” bouts of creativity. That’s where all theories start. But the difference between Science and Not Science is that the theories are put under the micrscope of logic and experimentation.

THE GREATEST SCIENTISTS WANT, ABOVE ALL, TO DISCOVER TRUTHS ABOUT NATURE (IN ADDITION TO ACQUIRING GLORY, GRANTS AND TENURE AND IMPROVING THE LOT OF MANKIND): THEY WANT TO KNOW.

They hope (subjective faith, wishing it were so) and trust that the truth is attainable, not merely an ideal or asymptote, which they eternally approach. They also believe, as I do, that the quest for knowledge is by far the noblest and most meaningful of all human activities. p. 5

***The point is?

The most common strategy of the strong scientist is to point to all the shortcomings of current scientific knowledge, to all the questions left unanswering given the limitations of human science:

***It shows they understand the limitations of current scientific knowledge.

How, exactly was the universe created?
Could our universe be justone of an infinite number of universes?
Could quarks and electrons be composed of stillsmall particulars, ad infinitium?
What does quantum mechanics really mean?
(MOST QUESTIONS CONCERNING MEANING CAN ONLY BE ANSWERED IRONICALLY, AS LITERARY CRITICS KNOW).
Biology has its own slew of insoluble riddles.
How, exactly, did life begin on earth?
Just how inevitable was life’s origin and its subsequent history?
(p. 7)

***Uh…huh…but there are questions that science has already answered and yet people continue to deny that the questions already have an answer.

Scientists are 21st Century Eunuchs dressed in Daoist Drag. They seek immortality through the mythology of their unbiased genetic research similar to what ancient Chinese emperors sought.

***The motivation may be the same but the tools are much sharper.

Human nature is human nature, no matter how you dress it up! I love them in their quasi-objective, born again stances, as if they have transcended their own humanness.
LOL

***That bugs me about scientists too.

You ought to read the Skeptical Inquirer to really see how kranked up they are about TCM. LOL

***Like I said TCM is going to be incorporated into modern medicine and explained by modern science.

What constitutes TCM now has already been “corrupted” by the western influence. Things are becoming more standardized based on the western conception of anatomy. Expect to see more of it until TCM is reduced to a foot note in history.

The refuge of those who want to believe in mysticism and “vital forces” will be in Chi Gung and Internal Martial arts (and probably faith healing) where due to so many variables it is harder to test hypotheses.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by RAF
[B]***Scientists are obviously “inspired” by “divine” bouts of creativity. That’s where all theories start. But the difference between Science and Not Science is that the theories are put under the micrscope of logic and experimentation.

Theoretical science, applied science, applied science in medicine. I didn’t pidgeon hole ya, ya did yourself. This assumes that everything is subject and understandable through logic and experimentation.

***Obviously we can’t live our lives like this. Sometimes you just have to go with the flow…BTW, I study Zen, Chi Gung, TaiJi, Xin Yi, etc. so don’t think I haven’t looked into these things myself.

Life isn’t lived this way and you don’t want the “tail” of science wagging the “dog” of life.

***Agreed. Science is not a philosophy unto itself. If anything I’d call myself a Secular Humanist w/ a bent towards Asian philosophy and psychology. Science is a powerful tool that is available to humanity. It’s the best we got.

You are right it is a tool and nothing more. It should learn to stay out of philosophy and metaphysics. However, it can’t because its driven by subjectivity.

***I definitely disagree with you here. Science should inform our philosophy.

Are there any limits to where science and the scientific method can go?

***Yes definitely. We will always have to make decisions that are more about the "heart "than the “mind” but we can be as informed as possible about those decisions.

Simply because they are put to the test doesn’t necessarily mean they have validity. Testing itself is riddled with subjectivity (incentives of grants do very interesting things to data. Publications and grants drive the tenure process and can obscure one’s “objective” view). Group and collective thinking, likewise.

***You are arguing two different points here. 1) The scientific community is corrupt. 2) The scientific method is flawed.
Yes to 1) and no to 2).

Do you think science advances through hypothesis testing and corroboration of a theory? Endless journal articles on statistical testing and appropriate tests and conditions. Endless journal articles and endless theories not subject to definitive testing but treated as fact. Lots of wonderful mathematical theories with lots of wonderful speculation dressed up as fact under the guise of “science and the scientific method”.

***Sure there is crap science out there. But the good science persists fads and trends.

Physics is especially in this realm.

***Or more specifically…cosmology. Human evolution is the same way. Theories are upset and new ones emerge at least once a month. But as out technology increases so does our power to answer these questions.

Maybe TCM will have to change the way scientists think about human functioning.

***It won’t change it but it will become absorbed into it as it is studied and analyzed. I’m not saying that TCM doesn’t work. I’m saying that what works and the reason it works will become illucidated by modern medicine and the scientific method.

I remember poor old dead Atkins in the 70s having to go before the Congress as they tore apart his claims and threatened to remove his medical license. The Harvard scientists all testifying about the “lack of scientific evidence” for the Atkins diet.

**I won’t go there. We know scientifically why it works. What we don’t know is the long range health effects of eating that way.

Too many variables in the human condition for Science and the Scientific method to deliver its Nirvana. If you took the Skeptical Inquirer and removed all references to science and put in religion, you’d think they had found Christ himself in a white lab coat.

**True. There are people that “pray to the God of Science.”

But I don’t consider myself one of them. I consider myself a common sense and rational thinker who is informed by science but not always guided by it.

In regards to the original topic of this thread. I think that the practices outlined are impractical and may be unhealthy. They seem to go against the natural functioning of the body and the benefits have not been documented by medical research.

Ahhh the price of salvation.

Ahh Mr. Fu Pow, you are a bright guy and I wish you well (sincere statement, no sarcasm to be read). Its not a bad idea to keep one eye open.

***Cheers.

Anyone have the answers to my questions? (page 2)

It was said already but,anyway…

No matter how much you love the culture,love the martial arts,the list goes on…
Do not believe anything that was once written down (that is,on faith),often a long time ago.If the authority is a master of bi fu yu chuan zang fuan (hypotethical art) does hardly make him (or her) an authority on anything else (this is even more true,if the teachings of the person,or his/her age makes geological difference…)
If the alleged authority makes proud statements about something,study them.The authority can relieve some of the pain that results from his/her intellectual suicide by clinging to a vaguely described or non-falsifiable matters.
Dear folk,think!

Ironfist - there are so many variables that affect this. What you eat, how you think, what exercise you do. Are you practicing medititation? You need to vary all of these things as well as your, ahem, frequency in order to find out how they affect you over a period of time.

And in direct answer to your question, I think if you have a nightime “emission” 1-2 times a month, the " total production" minus the “total leakage” is greater than if you’re jacking off to porn 1-2 times a day. The “difference” does not all come out into your urine, as some suggest. Some of the energy you can utilize.
However, ironically some Chinese ancient classics stated that these nightime emissions were more costly to the chi than sex. Which is why a lot of the Shaolin guys might run over to the little ho-house in the village, from what we hear. Another thing is when you’re gonna have one of those dreams, think of something else, make yourself wake up or something. You can delay it sometimes by several days. It’s quite gay of me to tell you this but I know there is a big interest in such methods in the Chinese Martial Arts community. Just don’t let your balls pop off. :eek:

All in all though, I agree with people who have no inclination whatsoever towards designing their sex lives around the principles of the Shaolin Temple. LOL :wink:

Hmm…

Has anyone actually practiced a qigong while having sex? I don’t mean while having sex, but I mean at a time in their life when they are very sexually active? Are they sure that it weakens chi? I mean like, was some guy not able to do a one finger handstand after having sex, or some guy couldn’t take sledge hammers to the stomach any more after having sex, and so he concluded that sex weakens chi? Just curious. Some famous philosopher said “question everything.”

I’m just curious. I’m not really doing any qigong right now, and I also have a girlfriend :smiley:

IronFist

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basically this stuff is fairly obvious. Anyone who practices strenuous fighting drills can feel the difference in strength and constitution between pre and post …party moments. The longer one goes without letting it go the stronger one gets…to a point. Most professional fighters and athletes refrain from sex for long periods before competitions.

Working yourself into a frenzy and then stuffing the pressure back is also bad for your body. The healthy thing to do is to control it if you want to hold it by using breathing and self awareness and control, instead of forcing the issue one way or the other.

there are varying reports on how long one should wait afterwards to practice. Listen to your body. Learn how to notice when you are at full power and when you are still …hmm…a bit soft. Usually the next day it is really fine to practice, but not practicing power. In internal arts, practicing power the next day is likely to hurt your kidneys among other things. Practice but practice soft or slow…whatever. There are so many ways to practice that are useful, we dont need to practice power everyday. When you feel strong again practice power.

Internal arts are a mixed bag in this area. The internal training usually leads to a lot of energy and and increase in …interest…but if practiced properly, should also include the result of making the sexual center stronger. This results in better retention and in some cases more work required to …let things out. unfortunately this level of practice is mostly missing from internal arts these days.

www.taijigongfu.com

Mo Ling has the best answer I’ve seen so far. Learn to listen to your body.

dude i’m talking about stopping it while you’re sleeping.

Yeah, as you know it’s not enough to have strong muscles. You must develop a strong will and a desire to employ it, and thereby control your dreams or stop them altogether.

Or did you think “internal kung fu” is all about moving your belly around? :wink:

The avatar is from Aqua Teen Hunger Force.

"Yeah, as you know it’s not enough to have strong muscles. You must develop a strong will and a desire to employ it, and thereby control your dreams or stop them altogether. "

Are you serious?

Hmmm… you could always learn lucid dreaming, which lets you control your dreams. Problem with that is that some authorities view it as a sleep disorder(Abnormal activity in prefrontal cortex… I think.).