Okay, first thing, go out and rent, “Play Misty For Me”, “Fatal Attraction” and “The Crush”-ya gotta do yer homework!
Now, ignore the crush, pair her off with people her age-ALWAYS! Have other people around-ALAWYS! This will have her keep her distance as well, and it protects you-very important just in case she reacts in a negative way, which can be anythng from accusing you of comming on to HER, to rape. Cover your assets. Sixteen is still a child. She may look like a woman, but she has a child’s emotions, and can be very spiteful. This is dangerous to you, and your carreer. Any accusation is a witch hunt, you are guilty untill proven innocent-and the neighborhood will never buy it-ever. I know, I have daughters, and if there was even a hint of foul play, guilty or innocent, I would pull my kids out of there so fast, your head would spin.
Oh, and change your cell phone number, you have no buisness even giving it out to her. (What were you thinking?-yeah, I know. I love my students, I care for them and I am there for them, and teens sometimes need someone to talk to, vent, cry, what have you, but you see where this gets you when you become TOO accessable) get a new phone with caller ID as well. Please, be careful.
In our neck of the woods, a “sifu” spurned the advances of a female student, and she cried "kid toucher’ about her daughter, and said he came on to her. They circulated a bulliten over the net, and plastered his face everywhere. To this day, nobody knows whether he is right or wrong. The woman has a less than clean bill of mental health. Still, nobody will ever trust this guy again. We all love Micheal Jackson, but would you let him babysit your kid?
ok, Johnny, your 30, when you were 17, she was 1.
Your hardwired to **** a 16 year old. Society frown on that, so move to another society if you really want to **** a 16 year old. Hey I’m 17 and I’m no kid. I have a woman’s feelings. I should be raising kids, our society wants us to marry at 30, and if your traditionall or don’t want to risk working at a donut shop, no ****ing before then. By then your bones are half dust and your ****ing a sagging remnant of what was once beautifull. Yes many women are beautifull in older age, but most really glow at 15-17. Its not fair, thats just life.
but remember yourself when you were 16, would she have dated you then? Would she be so ambitious to stick your pee pee in her mouth? Maybe not, but then woman are hard wired to like older men that can provide more in case something does happen. This is why money is so **** sexy. Also there is something about those hints of grey hair that is far sexier than any high school guy can be.
Of course there is great risk. But if you don’t some dirty old man will. He’ll do a bad job and she’ll be a spitefull person. What would Don Juan de Marco do? Are you a man or passion or of princible? How sweet would it be? On the other hand she may be a bad kisser, all teeth, nervous, reluctantly letting your hands roam as she has flashbacks of her uncle touching her. She may be a cold fish when it comes to sex, then when you have finished and you realised that you just used a child, you may cry and then return when you are *****, when you remember her as being a woman… and by force of will take her again and again.
Then again, you may fall in love, get married and live hapilly ever after.
I think the advice from the women is sound - but do be careful, always have someone else around.
Most young girls get over this, but if you have a spiteful one, you can be so screwed.
I have found that the ‘make it look like you already have a life’ mode works very well - especially if you are private and do not share details. Which again helps build a professional barrier.
Be clear, honest, and most of all careful.
i’m with sharkey.
if you turn her away she might go psycho b!tch on your ass and stirr up trouble.
better to just give her a hot beef injection every chance you get.
make her give you lots of head too.
it’s hard to talk sh!t with a co ck in your mouth.
****in mods
johnny h.s. (wink wink nudge nudge say no more…)
if i understand your post correctly; you are saying, the problem is this: i’ve seduced this 16 y.o. girl, and now i don’t know what to do, because i never dreamed that my grossly inappropriate fawnings would succeed, in enticing this young and innocent little girl. - please tell me that i shouldn’t act upon my depraved desires, so i can chicken out, and run away, while still protecting my ego, by allowing me to pretend i’m clinging to the moral high ground, while in fact, the truth is, i’m just too much of a nancy; too freaked out by the sin.
geez, just act disinterested
or tell her you got the aids.
Like most said, DON’T give her any “special” attention. ALWAYS have someone around. Treat her like any other student. She likes the fact that you treat her special, ALL WOMEN DO!!
Be very careful, she’s young, very impressionable, and she can ruin the rest of your life if your NOT CAREFUL!! Act like you have a girlfriend, you have a life, and she just can’t be part of it, other than her KF training.
Act like you have a life.
LOL @ KungFuYou
A pre-emptive strike is always best in these situations. File a sexual harassment suit.
That’ll show her!
(joking, I hope you could tell)
realize
you are a role model
that is supposed to help her grow
you are a symbol of what an ideal male is
(strong, skilled, respectful)
never do anything that would make her think that
all men fall into the category of users of women
be direct if you have to and let her know how cool martial arts are redirect her energies to her style development
tell her that if she calls you all the time you will have to charge her extra for private lessons
be careful with the parents, some dads would take her right out of the class if they knew their daughter was lookin at the sifu
easy
Young teacher the subject of school girl fantasy…
MaFuYee ROTFLMAO funny Sh!t Dude.
Stacey you are one seriously warped chick. Good for you.
Alright, I’m not the one with the crush.
I’m going to ignore it for now and be sure not to give any extra attention to her as well I will act very disinterested.
I will try with the unobvious, if things get worse then I will have to say something.
Something like what? I have yet to decide.
I thought Stacey was a man posting as a woman? Is Stacey really a chick? She sounds way too much like a guy.
No sir, I don’t like it.
Don’t trust him/her/it (pick one)
This is a serious statement too. I’m sure I remember a couple of fellas talking to (and about) Stacey being a guy & him admitting it.
If not, Sorry Stacey!
It wouldn’t be the first mistake I’ve made, but it certainly would be the first one I’ve made about questionable gender!
thank god I am too ah-g-hrih to have this problem,
also I dont teach…I am da stoodent 
I doubt that she really wants to seriously hook up with your or anything. The fact that you are the instructor and that you have the power is very intruiging to her. More often than not, a younger student will be attracted to their teacher, instructor whatever. it happens in school too. Just let her know that she isn’t welcome to call you on your cell phone. When she calls just say, hey i have to go talk to me about it at class. I wouldn’t necessarily talk to her about it, it would be an awkward situation for both of you then. Maybe she just wanted attention and then you tell her that you dont want to get with her – might scare her off to much ya know? Just ease into it by only having your encounters be during class. You probably wont be able to completely get rid of the crush but at least it will make you feel good. She probably listens well and tries to impress you. If nothing else it keeps her motivated to train. Don’t let this come in the way of you teaching her. Just try to slowely nudge her out of your private life so she wont feel so close to you. And enjoy her admirations from afar.
look, I was only joking before. I was trying to freak you out a little. I really think you need to consider this girls feelings and do whats appropriate as an adult. Its fun to indulge in a little fantasy. There is a teacher at my high school whose name sounds like Zvakage and we call him Mr. Package because he has a huge package and always sits with his legs far apart. We talk
about him in the bathroom and make it through his boring ass class by just imagining. But none of us would really do it. We flirt with him, but I don’t think any of us would really **** him. I think it would hurt anyways, that guy has got to be BIG.
Bad news
Stacey you are crazy and a bit annoying.
Well I tryed not to pay too much attention to her tonight and divert her attention elsewhere. I thought I had succeded because she seemed to be more interested in another instructor.
At 10:30PM she called me. 
I missed the call but she left me a lengthy message about her dance recitle and for me to call her back tonight.
I don’t think that ignoring this is the answer. I’m going to have to let her know the facts. I’m just not too sure what the Fu(k too say.
Yeah, stacy is a guy. He went by the name nutt’n’funny (or something to that effect) and would brag about his beautiful sweedish girlfriend. Stacy, you are probably a repressed ****sexual, seek help.
i say
try to hook her up w/ some 16 yr old student you have.