So I have some Russian chick from match who says she loves me…we never actually spoke…I have barely said more than simple 4-5 word sentances to her, and most of those were the most basic of questions, that she ignores…but she has fallen in love with me, and wants me to wire her some money for a Visa and travel expenses to come see me.
Your thoughts?
Do you want for me to post the e-mails?
The oldest letters were deleted, but at that point i thought she was too far for any sort of relationship, and mostlikely just interested in comming to the USA. I told her it would not work because of the distance and stopped e-mailing her. a week or so went by, and I get this:
Unfortunately, there is no letter from you. Such a
pity!
I came to the Internet cafe in such a good mood. And
what
a surprise- nothing from you.
I know that I shouldn’t react like this. You maybe
busy
with your own things.
But I will be waiting as much as it is necessary.
And I hope you will suddenly remember about me and
drop me
a line just to cheer me up.
And in spite of all the difficulties in my life,
though
the weather is very dull and there is no sun, I feel
happy.
Only a person who was lonely could feel this. The
world
and the life are now colored with bright colors. You
get
up in the morning knowing that someone is thinking of
you,
maybe even at this minute he is thinking of you,
wishing
you to have a very good day and even sending you an
air kiss.
Your letters woke up a poet in me. And I like this
feeling
very much.
I am in a very strange mood today.
I have remembered one song right now. I am sure you
know it.
It is a very famous song called “Stand by you.” I am
sure
you will understand me better after reading this. This
is
what I would like to have in relations with my beloved
person:
Oh, Why You Look So Sad?
Tears Are In Your Eyes
Come On And Come To Me Now
Don’t Be Ashamed To Cry
Let Me See You Through
'Cause I’ve Seen The Dark Side Too
When The Night Falls On You
You Don’t Know What To Do
Nothing You Confess
Could Make Me Love You Less
I’ll Stand By You, I’ll Stand By You
Won’t Let Nobody Hurt You, I’ll Stand By You
So If You’re Mad, Get Mad
Don’t Hold It All Inside
Come On And Talk To Me Now
Hey, What You Got To Hide?
I Get Angry Too
Well I’m A Lot Like You
When You’re Standing At The Crossroads
And Don’t Know Which Path To Choose
Let Me Come Along
'Cause Even If You’re Wrong
I’ll Stand By You, I’ll Stand By You
Won’t Let Nobody Hurt You, I’ll Stand By You
Take Me In, Into Your Darkest Hour
And I’ll Never Desert You, I’ll Stand By You
And When, When The Night Falls On You, Baby
You’re Feeling All Alone
You Won’t Be On Your Own
I’ll Stand By You, I’ll Stand By You
Won’t Let Nobody Hurt You, I’ll Stand By You
Take Me In, Into Your Darkest Hour
And I’ll Never Desert You, I’ll Stand By You
I’ll Stand By You,
Won’t Let Nobody Hurt You, I’ll Stand By You
Won’t Let Nobody Hurt You, I’ll Stand By You
Take Me In, Into Your Darkest Hour
Won’t Let Nobody Hurt You, I’ll Stand By You
–
yours Anastasiya
lapuwe4ka@yahoo.com
Here is some of my pics
http://photos.yahoo.com/lapochkafm
You wrote Thursday, August 17, 2006, 6:04:34 AM:
> Hi, Are you looking to come to the US?
>
> Your pictures are VERY beautiful!
> Anastasiya <lapochka@fmgirl.com> wrote:
> Sorry!!! I could not answer you earlier.
> I did not see your letter. It has been placed in
spam folder.
> I do not know why it happens.
> Probably it is a mistake of a server.
> I shall disconnect spam filter. Also I hope my
letter
> it will not be placed in yours spam the filter.
> Check it more often.
> I am glad that you have answered me. If I am still
> interesting to you, write to me.
> My name is Anastasiya. I am 28 years old (still
young but mature
> enough to know what I want in this life).
> Also call me shortly Nastya. This what usually
people who know me well call me.
> But also there are different ways to call me
tenderly,
> like Nastyona or Nastechka.
> My height is 167 cms(it 5.5 foots), my weight is 56
kgs.
> I am in a good shape. I am not skinny but look
really nice.
> I am not boasting, it is true.
> I take good care of myself as I care of my
appearance but
> I am not fanatic.
> I have a higher education. I studied on the faculty
of
> Russian language. So I am very good at Russian as
you see
> I have also finished courses of a medical nurse and
can
> make massage too. I should say I am rather good at
it.
> My family is not really big. I have a step father
and stepbrother.
> Unfortunately, I don’t have really close relations
with them.
> Sometimes we gather for holidays but it happens very
seldom.
> I feel very sad saying this but my mother died from
the cancer.
> I loved her very much and I miss her badly.
> I live alone. And I have to learn for my living. I
could
> work as a teacher of Russian. But teachers get very
small
> salaries in Russia. And I need to earn for my living
myself.
> That’s why I have finished courses.
> Now I work as a medical nurse in the private clinic.
> And I also do massage, it is my extra work. Thus how
I earn
> for my living. I am not complaining but it is really
a hard
> work. I should always be kind and polite though with
some
> people it seems to be impossible. I don’t want to
loose
> my job. So I try always to be patient even with rude
people.
> And what is more important, I get moral satisfaction
helping
> people. It is my contribution into the world.
> The city I live in is called Gatchina. These are 40
kilometers
> from St.-Petersburg.
> I live in Gatchina. But I work in St.-Petersburg.
Almost
> every day I should go 40 kilometers for work, and
back home.
> We have many places of interests and lots of
historical
> places. I enjoy walking there. Also we have some
theatres
> and cinemas.
> I want to have my own family very much. You know,
family is
> like a castle. Nobody can’t break it if you really
love your
> family and fight for it. It is a place where you
come with
> joy and happiness.
> And you feel bad and sad your family will always
support you.
> This is what I am looking for. I am looking for a
person who
> would be with me in bad and in good times. It is so
important
> to know that there is a person who need you and that
you
> are not alone in this world any more. Do you agree?
> Now you will have an idea of who I am.
> Ok, I will stop here and tell you more in my next
letters.
> I will be waiting impatiently for your reply.
> Enjoy your day!
. . . tell her you’ll send money in exchange for nudies.
Russian women are hot.
Reading all that was depressing. I have a cousin working as a missionary in Ukraine, she talks about how the simplest things in the U.S. are big deals over there. Getting heat for her apartment building last winter involved NUMEROUS bribes. I also knew a young lady from Moscow (Yolena) who joined my old martial art class…she had a nursing degree and making it to the U.S. (she said) was the best thing that could ever happen to her.
Yeah, the girl probably just wants to make it to the U.S…but I wouldn’t hold that against her either.
I was born and raised in Italy. I have met my wife in Internet and after trips to meet her personally I decided to move to USA and marry her. Now it’s been 5 years and we have a wonderful 18 month daughter together.
I happened to send money to my wife to help when I was still in Italy (above all for the phone bills heehee), but I already knew alot about her.
It depends on how well you know her and how long you 2 have been talking. A tourist visa might not be that expensive (she will pay there in Rubli and with the exchange probably in US dollards will be a low cost). But if she wants also the money for the plane ticket I would think about it twice. You might take a couple of weeks vacation and fly over there to meet her, at least you have a good vacation even if she is a fake.
what the heck, does everybody have a match.com profile?
i’d stay away personally, if she’s ignoring your questions to her i’d say that means she’s more worried about getting da fug outta there than really being in love with you.
Caveat Emptor
I got a similar letter-I could tell by the way she wrote that she was foreign-possibly Russian. It’s one thing to get a wink, or a short,“Hi, liked yur profile. You sound interesting..whatever write back”
it’s quite another to get this first letter and it’s intense. That should be a major red flag.
There was an article in GQ a few issues back that told a great horror story of a guy who met a Costa Rican girl over the internet and did the whole nine yards, and after the time limmit was up, and she got her green card, the whole relationship changed. He was devastated, not only financially, but emotionally as well.
just be careful, bro.
Click the link to her pictures
BTW- there are some SMOKIN Asian girls fro Shenzhen on match too!
(yeah, it is definately tempting…)
if I go for that, Royal Dragon and I can cry in our beers together:o
The first few letters were just normal chit chat. It’s after I started ignoring her that they got like this. I have more from her, I will be posting them over the next few days.
[QUOTE=Royal Dragon;705489]Click the link to her pictures
http://photos.yahoo.com/lapochkafm[/QUOTE]
:eek: She’s hot!
Russian Scam Artists
RD, you should be aware there are a lot of dating scams going on now. Before you send any $$$.
Also, if she doesn’t listen to you now, it’s doubtful she’ll listen to you later, even if she is legit.
Fly to her, do the deed and be done.
[QUOTE=Radplaiddude;705506]Fly to her, do the deed and be done.[/QUOTE]
I worked with several guys who married women from abroad. Best thing is go over there and meet them, not send $.
Worst case if you go over there and she’s a scammer you can meet somebody else.
But if all you want is sex with some woman wouldn’t it be easier just to go to Amsterdam’s Red Light district?
Or go to a bar and pick up somebody?
Or try this: www.adultfriendfinder.com, there seem to be a ton of women on there.
I get emails like that all the time. Hotmail filters them into the junk mail folder.
Hi. I am (insert name). I am Russian lady looking for American man. I heard you were handsome and I am very beautiful lady. Please correspond with me through email and we can become friends.
I also got a business proposition from Russia. Apparently they wanted to send me some $10k checks once a week, have me deposit them in an account, and keep 10% for myself. Wow! That’s $52k a year for going to the bank once a week! I’m sure the checks were legit, too. Oh, and the email said that after 6 months to a year, I would be offered a promotion and I’d get to go to Russia and get free stays in 5-star hotels, etc., while I was there.
And then sometimes I get emails from Nigerian royalty wanting to use my bank account to deposit large sums of money…
edit - btw, that chicks pics are hot.
yep.
this is right up there with all the great “stock tips” i get in my email…
but at the same time, if your really interested in this woman, going and seeing her if you able is probably the best bet.
lunghushan’s site made me reconsider my position. It’s probably not a pitiful girl trying to make it over here…it’s an organized Russian underworld business preying on lonely men. :o
Some of the guys on that site said they actually went over and visited THEN got scammed.
tell her that you’re into golden showers … both giving and receiving … see how she responds.