[QUOTE=extrajoseph;999459]It really is painful to “share” with you, because you don’t want to listen, you just want to hear your own words, [/QUOTE]
really? that’s interesting, because initially, I asked for other people’s opinion, I didn’t give mine at all; so where you are getting that I want to hear my own words is strange, especially after I asked you to be specific, and you then criticized ME for not sharing openly; do you realize this contradiction in your reasoning? either you don’t which is scary, or you are trolling, which is fine, but you need to do a better job of it;
[QUOTE=extrajoseph;999459]so let me say it once more in less a “Chinese thing” way:
I know it won’t make a major difference to you whatever I say, because you can only feel the way you are capable of feeling, and do what you are capable of doing, so the best way is to let you do what you do at the level that you are capable of doing and leave it at that.[/QUOTE]
well, this, in general, is true for anyone, including yourself; so what’s your point?
[QUOTE=extrajoseph;999459] After 15 years, whatever second nature you have will become first nature, so that is also fine with me because that is the way it is. So by all means, feel your counterbalance, your interplay and your lightness…[/QUOTE]
I’m not sure why you feel the need to validate my experiences for me - why would I need for you, some random stranger on an internet forum, to tell me that it’s “ok” to feel whatever it is I am feeling? also, the tenor of your response suggests that you do not think much the content of my “open sharing” - indeed, you seem to be somewhat dismissive about the terms I use (as if they were, I don’t know, merely speculation?!?); which, frankly, is fine, because you may not wish to characterize your experience in a similar manner; however, in stead of responding in a tone that suggests belittlement, why not argue their use on their own merits if you find them inadequate or inappropriate in your estimation?
[QUOTE=extrajoseph;999459]In other words, there is no point in telling you my experience, it would only be a waste of time, because at your level, you won’t be willing to and you wont be able to appreciate my experience, even though you might think otherwise and tell me you genuinely want to “share” and show me the correct way, and I am sure you will let me share with you a lot more of your verbal diarrhea as well (…it is your preconception, it is your problem, it is your issue, you are doing it wrong, how typical, you really are a conspiracy-minded chap! you don’t get it, do you? blah, blah, blah…)[/QUOTE]
wow…:eek:
first off, where are you getting that I want to show you the “correct way”? if you recall, you were the first to “offer” instruction to me; second, seriously dude, you are just going off the deep end with this - you accuse me of asking a trick-question (which you answered, BTW:confused:), accuse me of ambushing you, accuse me of not wanting to share, and when I do accuse me of wanting to show you the correct way; whaddupwiddat?either you’re a nutter, or you’re trolling - please clarify!
second, it is a common (overused) web-fu tactic to characterize another person’s posts as predictable and excessively verbose (verbal diarrhea) in order to to get an emotional response; but honestly, such ad hominum attacks are really just pathetic and demonstrate your own lack of ability to engage in any sort of reasoned discourse - but you’ve proven that by your repeated contradicting yourself (in fact, the fact that you are still taking part in this discussion after doing your little earlier panties-in-a-bunch storm-off demonstrates that you go back on what you say as it suits you), not to mention your somewhat paranoid perspective (trick questions, ambushes, etc.);
[QUOTE=extrajoseph;999459]LOL.[/QUOTE]
yes, I’m sure that you are:rolleyes:
[QUOTE=Scott R. Brown;999473]Joseph,
You are WAY projecting your issues![/QUOTE]
and the Understatement of the Year Award goes to…the Junior Senator from Massachusetts!!!
