Why don’t you try chi-sao with someone who is really good at WC? You probably have a descent school near you that can help you?
The first time I chi-sao:ed with my Sifu it was like standing on a slippery surface with zero balance, he owned my centreline and I felt like he wasn’t there? Sounds weird? He didn’t even try to hit me. He just pointed out all my weaknesses to me.
Chi sao is loosely translated as “sticky hands”. But this translation does not describe what chi sao really is. It is not true that you always and at all times stick your hands with your opponent. When there is no contact with the opponent’s hands, you don’t “chase” the opponent’s hand to establish contact. Instead, you strike.
Let us start with single hand chi sao. Partner#1 executes a tan sao while partner#2 executes a fook sao. Both partners’ hands are in contact at the wrist. When partner#1 executes a punch or a palm stike, partner#2 neutralizes the strike with a chum sao. Partner#2 punches partner#1. Partner#1 executes a bong sao to neutralize the punch. Partner#1 executes a tan sao and partner#2 executes a fook sao. Now we’re back from where we started. The techniques are then repeated. This description may sound like a drill but chi sao is not a drill. Both partners concentrate not just on the individual techniques but also on the other partner’s force/energy. The objective is to neutralize the opponent’s force/energy.
After single hand chi sao there is rolling or parallel hand chi sao. There is also cross hand chi sao. In fact there are many “levels or stages” of chi sao. But the objective is the same.
Chi sao is like a conversation. When your partner strikes, he is like asking you a question. When you block or parry, you are answering the question. You can also answer his question with a question by using the technique “fist parries fist”. Your partner has little or no idea what your answer will be. This is where chi sao comes in. In chi sao, we are trained to “listen” to the opponent’s energy so that we will have some idea on what his reaction might be.