My, how happy I am that you should make this request. Please excuse me for being boring or rude, but I would like to mention an experience I had last night.
When I began training in aikido, about a year and a half ago, a fellow named Jaimie began at about the same time and the two of us became a bit competative. We discussed this, and after many training sessions we became better training partners and (at least from my end) there is no longer any competition between us. Jaimie has been taking time off from training to help build our new dojo space, and last night we were able to train together for the first time in months.
We were practicing a technique (katate-tori-ryote-mochi, udemawashi irimi…which translates to the attacker (uke) grabbing the other guy by both wrists (as if to neutralize his weapons and enable an attack) and the defender (nage) leading him down and off balance, following him back up as he tries to regain himself and throwing him by laying an arm across his chest and striking him the solar plexus.
Anyway, to make a short story long Jamie and I are working togther and he says, “ok, i’m really gonna resist you this time lets see what you got”. Jamie outweighs me by about 65 lbs of muscle (he’s a climber and does contruction), and he knows how the technique works well enough to break my technique if I screw it up.
So he bears down and I go for it. I get him to come into my space and start to come up and he really puts the brakes on…I felt pain in both shoulders and my center began to slip. I relaxed my entire body as much as I could, tried to feel what was actually going on instead of trying to do the throw, and suddenly I knew just where he was weakest. The throw completed itself with Jamie actually colliding his ribs into my knee as he fell…he was trying so hard to stop me he forgot to take a safe fall.
Injured and panting, he smiled and said he wouldn’t try that again, to which I responeded he must, and that I am very grateful for his help. I feel very sorry that he sustained an injury.
That, I believe, was the first time in all of my efforts thus far that I have actually done a bit of aikido.