Ok, I am all for respecting the teacher, and whatever MA I have studied , I have done so. But not because they are martial artists. I think everyone should respect everyone else if they deserve that respect.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=“-1”>quote:</font><HR> . And then they may come back once or twice, or not at all. So, what did I get out of it? [/quote]
Well, you might have gotten a paying student! You are allowed a free test drive of a car before you buy it!
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=“-1”>quote:</font><HR>That time I spent with the prospective new student… that time is gone and I can’t get it back.
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Well, maybe you shouldn’t be looking for students then!
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=“-1”>quote:</font><HR> So, by paying up front for the trial class or trial period, it’s a matter of respecting the teacher’s time. [/quote]
No, it’s a way for the teacher to cash in a little bit more! If I am somebody who walks in off the street, I don’t know sh*t about the teachers personality, quality, or skill, and the only respect they deserve is the respect you give to any other fellow human being you just met! Any more profound respect must be earned, or its worthless.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=“-1”>quote:</font><HR> If the teacher is really that good, maybe you should pay more (or even take them out to dinner). (Think about it)
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Pay more! Come on! Of course I expect a reasonable fee, but are you saying as my teacher increases in skill, my tuition should go up also!
And take him to dinner? What! Should I buy him a car, and do his grocery shopping too! Maybe give him a bath? Hold his wang while he whizzes? Quit living in a bad kung fu movie!
Bottom line: Respect is earned on both sides, and expecting money or favors as a token of respect is pretty sh*tty! (think about it)
“Ninja!..NINJA!”-Christopher George, from “Enter the Ninja”