Thank you Willow Sword
Mr. Willow,
Thank you for the humorous response to my post. It was very impassioned. I am happy that you took what I have written to heart and I appreciate your comments and compliments. I would be nice to see your passion channeled into more productive directions. I am sorry for the way you have apparently been treated by some members of this BB. No one likes to be ridiculed publicly as you apparently have been. It is clear that your feelings have been deeply hurt by Reemul and others. I too come from an American eclectic Kung fu style based on Shaolin. It is called Fu Chen and we have about 4-5 schools in California and Wisconsin. I understand that being accepted by the MA community is important. We all want credibility. I understand that a person can only take so much and it appears you have been pushed to your limit. Please allow those who are concerned and care, and who are able to think more clearly help you calm your wrath before you do something that you may regret. Defending your honor and the honor of your style in this manner will not gain you respect. It will more likely prove to your nay-sayers that they were right about you and your art. While it is difficult to do while others are ridiculing you, you must attempt to rise above your detractors and demonstrate to them through your conduct that you are a person of sincere purpose. Historically, many new MA are ridiculed in their infancy. Morihei Uyeshiba was ridiculed for his development of Aikido, it is now one of the fastest growing MA in the world, and it is still ridiculed in some circles. Let the success of your art speak for itself. If others want to poo poo your art, it is a reflection of their immaturity for not giving it a chance. If some poo poo your art based on some evidence of personal experience, let your conduct and the conduct of others in your art prove them wrong. Not everyone will like you or your art. I believe that we should live our lives in such a manner that, if anyone hears something bad about us it will be disbelieved out of hand because of our exemplary example, not proven true by our poor example. It is not too late to take the high road. There is no dishonor in recognizing that you have made a mistake. The young minded may be upset about missing a spectacle, but those of us that are more sober minded will respect you for doing what is right.
I am relatively new to this BB. I am unfamiliar with you, Reemul, and Shaolin-do. My art is only 25 years old and we are still very small. I would not and have not disrespected you, your art, or any other art. Individuals are another matter. Inappropriate behavior is inappropriate whether it is pointed out by a 15 year old or a 50 year old.
What you are planning is not a war it is unethical, immoral and AGAINST THE LAW. It sets a poor example for younger students. You are attempting to gain something that will move further from your grasp should you follow through. The only ones that will respect you or Reemul are the childish and immature. Are these the type of people that you want attempting to bring credibility to your art? All that will occur is that you and your art will lose the credibility you so want to gain.
While posturing is childish, I am happy to take your slings and arrows if it will help you ventilate some of the anger you have. It does need to be expressed in a more appropriate manner than in a fight. That is why people and animals engage in posturing. It is an attempt to avoid physical conflict. So here I am ventilate some more. Get it all out so that you can turn your passion to developing Shaolin-do into an art to be admired and respected
I will be happy to speak on your behalf to your Sifu. Please send me a personal e-mail with your name and his telephone number and perhaps together your Sifu and I can help dissipate some of this aggression.
Reemul, We have not heard from you on this yet. Perhaps an apology would be in order. As I am unfamiliar with the depth of this dispute between you, I understand I may be speaking out of turn. However, fighting will not solve the issue or prove a thing. Swallowing our pride is difficult. We have all eaten crow at times. It is never wrong to take the high road. I am asking to review your own comments relative to Mr. Willow and ask yourself if maybe you have gone too far. If your conscience and ego will allow, please apologize. Sometimes mortal enemies can become good friends. It is not too late, yet.
I hope you two can work this out peaceably. I am at your service to help in any way.
Sincerely,
Scott