“Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterwards.” – Unknown
“Deep down inside of all of us is the power to accomplish what we want to, if we’ll just stop looking elsewhere.”
Cool
Guns don’t kill people, I kill people
“Time is an excellant teacher. Unfortunately, she kills all her best students”
“Any fool can learn from experience, It takes a wisw man to learn from others”
Although there are many styles, they all depend on the strong beating the weak and the slow falling to the quick. These are not related to the power that must be learned – Taiji Classics
I feel enlightened now, thank you all very much
Water dragon:
Great quote…putting it on my website 
“Deep down inside of all of us is the power to accomplish what we want to, if we’ll just stop looking elsewhere.”