training is training. the methods should be built out of real encounters and situations.
having said that, if you want to reallyget into rbsd training, then it is the scenarios that you need to build.
realistically speaking,what are likely scenarios you will find yourself in and how can you train for best defense in those situations.
yes, sparring helps, but after a while it has served it’s purpose ie: you know how to hit, you know what it feels like to be hit. You don’t want to thoroughly damage your sparring partner because that means you don’t get to spar as much. Go to hard= you are stupid and will always have off time which will hurt your overall training path.
incorporate weapons, seated defenses against non-linear attacks, multiple attackers helps you learn how to keep your back to more than one person, how to use one of your attackers to shield you from the others etc etc.
awareness training is big too. There are a lot of ways to train this into a normal everyday thing you do. Walk in a room, count the exits, how much clear space, who is in the killing mood?(sar chi), how do you identify that in people and how aware are you of the 360 degree globe you are in and that can be penetrated. at what point of penetraion to your globe do you act?
sparring and ring training alone is NOT reality based. In fact, all you have to do is ask yourself what reality you face regularly that may at some point require you to be physically responding?
Think first, develop a method, train it and always know that you will never be able to know each and every variable of a confrontations outcome.
weapons are important to incorporate as well. If you’ve ever been up against a baseball bat you will know how that changes almost everything your previously learned and will MAKE you think about how to deal with that shit. I would suggest you begin with something a little softer than a for real bat, but don’t get to comfortable with foam. Because you will be able to handle what you train for given a little luck and a bit of skill and ability. So if all you know is foam, that’s all you’re good for.
RBSD is a catch phrase ultimately and amounts to nothing more than fear tactic marketing. However, it is a necessary evil to use marketing to put bread on teh instructors table. So long as the method is sound, you will be one step up on the attacker who is certain his weapon makes him king.