Thanks Daniel, well put post yourself. Probably the most important line being:
“Make it work for you, but do not give up the things that make the style what it is”
Much ignored this type of thought, people are often too consumed by intricacies which do not make the style what it is, IMHO and all of the teachers I have ever had.
Meltdawn:-
“The hunch the Lam family exhibits, IMHO, is conformational, not a method to/result of the style.”
I agree completely, in fact I have never seen any actual Lung Ying teachers/students with the 'hunch.
Meltdawn:-
“Someone described sarm tone from a teacher
whom also taught bak mei, and there were no corner to corner” moves as in mine."
Quite so, in none of the versions of Sam Tong that I know are there diagonal moves.
Meltdawn:-
“Elbow protects ribs / Elbows outward. I would think it would be a similarity, not a difference.”
Again I agree.
Meltdawn:-
“Right side for. / Left side for. Hmmm. I don’t know enough yet. I think lung ying makes equal
use of both sides.”
Mine (Lung Ying) is definitely more left stance orientated.
Mantis108:-
“Mobility wise, Lung Ying has more of a Zig Zag pattern which makes it both circular and angular at the same time. Not to meet force with force is always stressed. Bak Mei, on the other hand, uses TTFC more even in counting incoming strikes instead of using using footwork to disolve it first. With that in mind, a more linear and rootedness in stance isn’t a problem. The argument here would be which one spend more Chi? We have to keep in mind that TTFC to issue Ging does spend more Chi. Lung Ying is very concious about preserving Chi and therefore the fighter. We can see that in the Right forward vs Left side forward.”
With respect this entire statement makes no sense to me considering what the Lung Ying I study is like, hence the previous comments about teachers. For instance rootedness in stance is absolutley important according to my LY teacher.
So what does this mean? Now theres a ball of contention.
Mantis108:-
“The fists and the soft/crisp are again about preserve life (the opponents as well). Lung Ying believes in fight if you absolutely have to. Bak Mei fights on occassions to uphold the honor of the style.”
Sorry but this makes no sense to me either. Please explain. Are you talking here of self defence or about athletic contest?
Mantis108:-
“Stomping is more a Sifu thing and a showy thing. Most of the time, both styles don’t exhibit that in fighting.”
Again when you say “fighting” please qualify. It is important.
Fiercest Tiger:-
“at the end of the day as long as you can fight with your stances that is the main thing.”
Wise words.
Biu Ji:-
“My question was about angles used with stances, you mentioned deflection etc but nothing of off balancing with those angles.”
Aah, Siep Sau 
Mark S