Yesterday morning may have been the worst day of my life.
My wife’s cancer has come back and it has spread very rapidly through her body and systems. My heart has never felt so heavy. I don’t know what makes me sadder, the thought that my best friend and lover is dying or that I’ll have to raise our very young son without her.
Today is my last day at work. I quit this morning. she doesn’t have the strength to take care of our son by herself anymore. I’ll be doing some freelance work from the home and for the time being I’m going to take her away from here and just go away from it all.
So long gang, I’ll miss our silly debating and quarrels.
Stuart, - take care good friend, I have your e-mail addy and hope to see you again someday in the future.
“Ralek” - I know the secret Take it easy on the traditional guys. Neither one can prepare you for some things in your life although they can be focuses of distraction and positive things.
But just for the record i really don’t train. There must some other person there that is being mistaken for me. Go to the yamasaki school with your friend and see for yourself that it’s a different person.
I also know that its not you unless you morphed into a big korean kid I went there Sunday moring to work out with the thai guys. Violence is the last thing on my mind right now.
Have you considered taking her to someone that knows qigong? I have heard it can help people with cancer.
“You will never need to feel weak, helpless, indecisive, not fascinating or ashamed of your genital dimensions. GOOD-BYE Humiliation. Bullies, Karate Experts, Boxing Champions, traffic wardens will melt to pulp as you master every situation.”
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Good luck and God bless your wife. Whatever you do, don’t let those doctors poison her with chemo - I lost two cousins that way. I’m sure they were going to die anyway, but the chemo seemed to accelerate the process.
Keep your head up, bro.
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“I’ll be too busy lookin’ good!”
We’ll all keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Hopefully we’ll see you again in the future and you’ll bring us happy news. Good luck.
And Ralek, cudos for handling this with class and acknowledging that you were just trying to get a rise out of the rest of. Not that you care much, but that was classy move that raises my opinion of you.
Sometimes life just isn’t fair especially to good people. But God has a purpose for every situation that we are faced that will test your faith, strength, and your view on life. Be strong for your wife, cause she will her draw strenght and her will to fight this from you most importantly you have be the guide for your little man, cause he’s going to look to daddy for answeres.
Having been in your situation I truly feel your pain…The mother of my son was murdered in 98
and I’m still fighting, trying to show my son
the joy in life. Its a long tough road but everyday that passes it gets a little more easier you’ll see just keep the faith and God will give you the strength.
Take it easy on the traditional guys. Neither one can prepare you for some things in your life although they can be focuses of distraction and positive things.
I went there Sunday moring to work out with the thai guys. Violence is the last thing on my mind right now.
